Location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Relationship status: Cosmically united
Religious affiliation: Witch
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I wanted to have sex with a woman, and I didn’t know where else to go but to The Abbey. I got super hot and put on a gay chip for the night. I went alone, but when I got there I met this awesome group of gay guys that were in town for the weekend, and we danced our butts off. When we were dancing, this beautiful, petite girl walked by, and smiled at me. She looked white, almost pale. Her hair was long and beautiful, wavy and dark.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I introduced myself, and took her back to the dance floor with my new made friends. There, we began dancing and touching our bodies. We made out, and the whole Abbey made out with us. We spaced out, kissing, and touching, blowing fine currents of air into our ears and getting more and more aroused, then, I asked her to spend the night at my place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We came to my apt, we drank some wine, and I put on some records. Here, we talked for a little bit. I knew she was only in town for the weekend visiting some friends, which made things so much easier. After chatting a bit, we started kissing and had sex for a long time. We ate each other out, fingered, and scissored. The one thing I missed was a phallus, of any kind. I so wanted to feel penetrated, but I didn’t have a dildo. I was sucking her lower lips and fingering her pussy and butt when she came. I didn’t have an orgasm, but I juiced all over her. She was sweet, too. Tender, and cute. Sleeping together was nice, we gave each other space. The next morning, I took her to her friend, it felt like neither of us was interested in exchanging any contact info, so we kissed on the cheek, smiled, and nicely said good bye.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had threesomes before, but I’ve never had a one on one woman loving experience.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, alcohol, and marijuana. Not much. A couple of drinks and a couple of puffs.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great and sexy. I don’t think I will ever see her again. I hope she is good.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My lover and my close friends.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner?: Yes. Yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. Now I know.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?: The best is that it happened, and the worst is that $10 dollars for a drink??
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’ve had hook ups before with men (sex outside of a serious relationship, never a one night stand though). It never worked, I’ll get attached, hurt or vice versa.
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