by Rose
Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Location: Santa Fe, NM
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Teacher
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Open to new experiences
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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The Almost Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup? friends-with-benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had hooked up with this guy Manuel a couple of times. He was still in love with his ex but we maintained a close friendship. The girl was my close friend, Elle. We’d been friends for three years. I thought it was kind of hysterical but an interesting experience.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We actually made plans to have a threesome. The first time we tried his friend was preying on our other friend and we didn’t want to leave her alone with a guy she wasn’t attracted to. Then we made a distinct plan to come to my party. I was having a lingerie party and we figured we could drink and get loose. Then we’d have our threesome.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got really drunk and went into my room and started hooking up. We are all kissing and I’m fingering her while she is kissing him. I start kissing her breasts, then stomach and then I start to unzip her pants to eat her out and she jumps up and runs to the bathroom. The rest of the night I’m feeding her water and tortillas because she got a little too drunk. Poor Manuel was so upset. He was so close to living out a fantasy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Not enough happened to worry.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We wanted a new experience.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots of booze and a little ecstasy.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt bad for Manuel but in the end I think Elle and I were not ready for that type of experience. Both of them are in relationships as far as I know. We all still talk.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told all of my friends. It was funny.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Everyone agreed before we go intoxicated.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t at all. It was funny and I explored my sexuality in a new way.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was it was the first time I hooked up with a girl. The worst is that it never came to fruition. I just realized I’m not a threesome type of girl.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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