by Sarah

Gender: Female
Age: 35
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Houston, Texas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Corporate Lawyer
Relationship status: Sort of seeing someone
Religious affiliation: Baptist
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

The Athlete

How long ago did this hookup happen? Six Months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One Night Stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a handsome African American man in his early forties, tall muscular and a former professional athlete.  I won’t share his name here or what sport he played as many would recognize it.  I had known him for years, as he is a spokesperson for the fashion company I work for.  He had a reputation for screwing anything that moved and he made a few passes at me in the past but I had never hooked up with him.  I’ll call him the Athlete from here on out.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I should share a little of my background here.  I was adopted at seven by a very religious and conservative southern family.  Now don’t get me wrong, my parents are great people but they were a little naïve when it came to sex.  It was something that was never discussed in my house growing up.  Which could explain why my sister has four kids by four different men, my other sister has three divorces and she is younger than me.  My brother though is happily married with two kids.  As for me I lost my virginity at fifteen and have been sexually active ever since.
Now the Athlete is far from the first black guy I have hooked up with, I found I prefer black men actually. My ex which I dated for over four years was black. I was even involved with a black girl during a period of experimentation in law school.  Part of it has always been a bit of rebellion against my parents.
Now back to the Athlete, I am not what you consider classically pretty, a little nerdy and flat chested and I tend to dress conservatively but I have always had my pick of men as well.  I didn’t really think I was on his radar too much at this point.
For work I had traveled with him quite a bit. When this hookup occurred we were in Atlanta for a store opening.  We had gone to the opening and were riding back to the hotel and he made a comment about how fine I was looking and put his hand on my thigh.
Now I was a little unsure here.  As a rule I have always stayed away from men I work with but I hadn’t had sex in nearly a year and back in my hotel room I realized how horny and pent up I was.  I wasn’t looking for any sort of relationship, just a night of hard screwing and knew the Athlete would be a good guy to do this with.
I met him down in the bar, where we had drinks and I flirted with him a little.  He asked me back to his hotel room and I said yes.  We went to his room, he ordered a bottle of wine and I had another glass.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out and clothes came off quickly.  He had quite a large cock that I stroked a bit, but he ended up bending me over the end of the bed and fucking me from behind hard a little rougher with me than I prefer.  I don’t normally go for doggie style but he was enjoying himself so I went with it.  It didn’t take him very long to finish and he let out a few loud moans as he did.
I laid on his bed naked watching TV for about an hour or so, debating when to get dressed and leave.  He laid down next to me after a while and I think he knew I hadn’t enjoyed it very much.  He started kissing me, working his way down and sucking on my breasts for a while. Before I realized it he was eating me and it felt amazing.  It took about twenty minutes, he was quite talented orally, but he ended up giving me one of the most intense orgasms of my life.
I had to recover for a while after this, and he lay next to me rubbing my back and touching me.  We chatted a bit mostly complaining about the CEO.  We ended up going one more time and he penetrated me and kept kissing me throughout until he came again.
Around one in the morning or so I gathered up my clothes and did a half dressed walk of shame back to my hotel room.  Part of me had hoped he would ask me to stay but he never did.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Just the once when he gave me oral, he did both times during the vaginal intercourse.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Now we didn’t really discuss STI history but I knew he had just tested clean as part of a STD awareness campaign he was a part of. We didn’t use protection and I did let him finish inside me twice so I did take a morning after pill.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Mostly I wanted to and was pretty horny, and he was willing.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had two glasses of wine, not sure how much he had.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was pretty sore in the vaginal area for a few days and I had bruises on my hips from where he had held onto me.  I didn’t realize it but I had left my bra in his room and he dropped it by in the morning.  He was quite cold with me after, and sent me a pair of diamond earrings something I knew he did with all his hookups and the Athlete kind of acted like it never happened.  Now I won’t pretend like I was looking for anything more than a one night stand.
Now I will admit to blowing him a few weeks later in a limo, and a few more times after that over the next few months.  I started seeing someone and stopped anything sexual with him.  However in an elevator he wanted me to come to his hotel room, got a little forceful with me but someone else came in.  Since then, I have kept my distance from the Athlete.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t really told anyone, part of the reason I wanted to post it here after a friend told me about this site.  Fraternization is against company policy and I have worked very hard to keep my parents from learning of my sexual proclivities.  They would hardly approve of premarital sex, let alone me taking a black man into my bed.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for us both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I am not ashamed at all of what I did, but things have been awkward and I have been making a point of avoiding him. I do regret breaking my rule about men I work with.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I will admit to really enjoying the oral and the incredible orgasm he gave me.  Worst part was his behavior towards me after.  This whole experience rather reinforced my whole policy about hooking up with men I work with, something I plan on never doing again.  I did make a few decisions about my future, I would still like to get married and have a family.  I have also started sleeping with someone else, a man a bit younger than me, and yes he is black. With him I can see a future.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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