by Jorn

Gender: Male
Age: 17
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Current location: Washington
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: No affiliation
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Only sexual attracted to guys, prefer dating women (emotionally and sexually attracted to women)
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Belgian Experiment

How long ago did this hookup happen? Couple months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Hookup

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was cute, curly hair, average body — not too fat, or too skinny. I did not know him too well because I found him on grindr and hooking up isn’t a new thing to me. I met him at his apartment in Brussels and I was really excited (wink wink) to see him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began when I entered his apartment and he was naked. He took off my pants and we started getting into business. He was cut too, I was surprised because most Europeans are uncircumcised.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Just mostly oral. I blew him while I jacked off. I sort of hoped that he returned the favor but he didn’t.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, my partner did also. He came in 10 minutes and I came after him jacking off.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We just asked each other if we were “clean” etc. Condoms were not used though.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny and I was traveling Europe so I wanted to explore.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nein. Nicht. None.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing happened. It was just a hook up.
However, after the hookup, I found out I liked getting my nipples touched because he squeezed my nipple during the blow job.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friends and sisters. My best friend reacted like most best friends would and well my sister reacted in shock.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both of us. We both liked it. Even though I wished he could of blew me back.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not really. He’s the reason why I started touching my nipples.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was I found out what I like and the worst thing was my sister was trying to call me because my aunt was looking for me. It didn’t change anything as much but I did enjoyed it because we both had our 10 minute of fun.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Guys, straight or gay or bi or whatever you wanna call yourself, your partner might want to be pleased too, don’t be a selfish guy and do your job.

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