Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A Few
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How long ago did this hookup happen? A little over a Year
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Threesome
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My first partner was Ruth, the busty blonde I had been seeing a little more than a year at this point (see The Cop). The other was Ida, a visiting professor from Sweden and here for a year. Now she didn’t look Swedish, with brown skin and black hair, more of a Persian or Middle Eastern look to her. I eventually learned Ida’s family had fled Iran when she was a baby. I had shown Ida around campus when she had arrived, we had talked and flirted a bit and had lunch a few times. She was the type of woman I would have gone after, but I was already in a serious committed relationship with Ruth. I also knew Ida was very open sexually, she had slept with a female colleague I once shared a fling with many years ago, she had told me, proud of herself.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Ruth and I actually shared a rather spicy, exiting sex life and she was always very open sexually, when we were together. She had asked what my fantasies were and fulfilled more than a few. I told Ruth I had always wanted to have a threesome, what guy doesn’t, and she agreed. We talked about it for weeks and agreed to two conditions, Ruth got to pick the other woman, and also got to explore that side of herself.
We had a Christmas party with my colleagues. While Ruth and I were in similar fields (Criminal Psychologist and Cop) and she found my work and research fascinating she never denied she found my colleagues boring. However she didn’t mind me showing her off as well. At the party we had talked about Ida, she was in a rather flattering and somewhat revealing black dress. Ruth had spoken to her at length and admitted an attraction to her to me that night. I wasn’t jealous, Ruth would never cheat.
About a month later was my birthday. I was expecting something maybe a costume of some sort or some kinky sex because Ruth was that way. I came back to the apartment Ruth and I shared and I could hear laughing in the bedroom. I walked in, and there were Ruth and Ida. Ruth was dressed in a black lace bra and panties with leggings a set I had bought her a few weeks before. Ida was wearing a red nightie of Ruth’s, from the pile of lingerie next to Ruth’s closet she had clearly tried several pieces. However Ida was thinner than Ruth and a lot taller and a smaller chest so it was rather tight and form fitting. Ruth said this was my birthday present.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Ruth and Ida pulled me towards the bed, and Ruth unbuttoned and removed my shirt, something she had always liked doing. They then took a step back and began to kiss each other and grope each other and lick, the whole thing was really hot and I felt myself growing hard quickly. Ruth took Ida’s nightie off and we both got to see her naked at the same time, tall and thin with a few tattoos and a jagged scar that ran most of the length of her midsection. She told us it was from an accident when she was a kid.
Ida removed Ruth’s bra next and they were still kissing and feeling each other. I was enjoying watching and will admit to pleasuring myself a bit. I have to admit as well it was all a little confusing at first, double everything. Four legs, four arms, four breasts, two vaginas and two asses it was all a bit overwhelming.
They then focused on me for a time, Ida began to kiss me and we made out while Ruth was licking my balls and sucking my cock. After a few minutes Ida pushed Ruth back and I took her. I grabbed Ida and pinned her down and stuck my cock in her. I licked and sucked her breasts and grabbed them hard as I rode her while Ruth watched. Ruth later admitted she enjoyed seeing me with another woman, and it got her off. Ida was screaming and moaning the entire time so I knew she was enjoying herself. I got close to climax so I pulled out and decided it was best I finished inside Ruth since she was my girlfriend. I orgasamed and dumped a load in her.
I had to relax after this, I usually do post-orgasm. Ruth was the only one who had not had an orgasm yet so after a few minutes Ida moved over and began to eat her. I will admit, watching another woman pleasure my Ruth got me off and I had to pleasure myself. Ida reached over at one point and slapped my hands away and stoked my cock with her own hand. After Ruth finally orgasmed, usually she does faster and she was a bit embarrassed but Ida and I said it was ok, Ida moved over and began to give me oral while Ruth kissed me. Ida got me close and then mounted me to finish, saying she needed to feel me come inside her.
I was pretty tired at this point and Ruth and Ida were going at it again. I figured out here that Ida was a lot more into Ruth, and Ruth had always been one to let go in the bedroom. I moved over to join in after a bit, taking Ida from behind since she was licking and sucking Ruth’s breasts at the moment. I rode her in doggie for a few minutes, and then Ruth wanted me to do her. I came again in Ruth. Now very tired at this point I fell asleep while the ladies were still making out.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Didn’t use protection, but Ruth and I both had recently tested clean and had been monogamous for nearly a year. Ida had also tested clean, she shared this with Ruth before the night. Both women were on the pill as well.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had always wanted to have a threesome.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was sober but Ruth and Ida had shared some wine.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I awoke the next morning and found a woman asleep on top of me. I thought it was Ruth but it was Ida and she smiled and we made out for a minute. She then climbed off of me and did the same for Ruth who was on the far side of the bed. She asked to use our shower and I said yes and Ruth and I pulled clothes on. I made breakfast, as I have said before I was a gentlemen and Ruth and I talked Ida into joining us. Finally Ida kissed me goodbye and said she had really enjoyed the both of us and if we wanted to have her join us again call her. There was no pressure. She then kissed Ruth goodbye and grabbed her ass a bit. As I said she was more into Ruth.
Ruth and admitted we really enjoyed ourselves and were glad to have done it. However we also agreed Ida was a little too into Ruth. We talked about adding her a few more times and called her once but she was busy. Ultimately we decided it wasn’t a good idea.
I didn’t see Ida much the rest of the term, between classes and my research I was really busy. She went back to Sweden and had friended both me and Ruth on Facebook, but she was talking to Ruth what I thought was a bit too much so Ruth broke contact. I could always be very honest with Ruth which was a big part of why we worked. I haven’t actually spoken to Ida in any form in close to a year.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have never actually told anyone, this was a private moment between me and Ruth and Ida as well. Ruth and I did discus it at length though after.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? For all three of us yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all, Ruth and I both got to explore another side of ourselves.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part was getting to have a threesome. Worst part was how much more Ida was into Ruth. I learned perhaps a threesome is something you need to be careful with.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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