by Matt
Gender: Male

Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: Black
Location: NJ
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Physician
Religious affiliation: RC [Roman Catholic]
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? No
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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The Biter

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was white, blond, British. I met her one night while on tour with a rugby club on the Isle of Wight at a club. We were complete strangers but had made out in the club that first night after some sexy dancing and mucho alcohol but I got cock-blocked by her friends. She gave me her number and the following day we had a lot of flirty texts back and forth and eventually I met up with her at another bar that night. Before we hooked up I thought she was cute enough to bang on tour. When you’re on tour you usually take what you can get but she was definitely cute and fit and the way she was grinding suggested that she might be a freak in the sheets.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So we were at the bar and this was a Sunday night on the Isle of Wight so the scene is pretty dead until my rugby crew and I show up. We had our tour dinner then went out and I had been texting with her so I suggested to the boys where to go based on where she was going to be. So we meet up and I’m a bit surprised that she actually was a looker (I was quite drunk the night before) and that she was a lot tamer when she wasn’t drunk. She made it quite clear early on that night though that she wanted to fuck me and I am not one to mess up a sure thing. We had fun at the bar having drinks with the group and dancing until we decided to go back to her place which was about a 2 mile walk. Whatever, I was getting laid so I didn’t care. Once we got to the house it was on!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She threw me on the bed and gave me oral for about 5 minutes then we moved straight into vaginal sex. First she rode me cowgirl then leaned over while on top and bit my clavicle very hard! It hurt a lot but I laughed it off at first. We switch to missionary and as I leaned over her she bit me again, this time breaking skin! I almost lost it at that point, I was so angry that I felt like smacking her across the face! I turned that aggression into some positive sexual energy and turned her over and fucked her doggy-style until I came over her ass and back.
She cleaned up but was still horny so I gave her some head until she came then started up round 2, and the fucking bitch bit me again while in missionary! I lost my boner a little after that and never finished. Went to sleep soon after while holding her and fondling lazily.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I did not use a condom and I have no idea if she was on birth control or if she had anything. I had never tested positively for anything before or after her and she never told me about getting pregnant. I did pull out the one time I ejaculated.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was on tour and horny.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had both been drinking the night we met and the night we hooked up.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She dropped me back to the team hotel right as everyone was having breakfast. I remember it vividly because everyone started clapping as I came in and the news that Bin Laden was killed just broke. I was happy that I was able to pull a decent-looking girl for a one-nighter. I’ve had my share of randoms but most were not as attractive or as freaky in bed.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told all the boys! They congratulated me and laughed at my pain from the bites. I showed them my bruises, one of which persisted for 3 months!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was consensual for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing: she delivered the goods sexually after talking up a big game. For a one-night stand it was a passionate, all-out banger which I never really had with someone I had just met.

Worst thing: definitely the biting which I was not into but turned her on apparently.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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