by Max Black

Gender: Female
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: White/Caucasian
Location: Romania
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Blue Sweater

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met in a bar, we went out with a friend and he introduced us. The Physicist was wearing a simple blue sweater, had lovely hazel eyes and smiled a lot. At first he seemed a little bit annoying, but after a while we started completing each others sentences and we were flirting like mad.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We flirted all night and we finished a couple bottles of wine, and we went back to my place where we got rid of our clothes very quickly. I started rubbing his dick with my thigh and that’s how it all started.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had vaginal intercourse, we also practiced a little bit of oral sex. I also recall asking him to bite my nipples and my shoulders (that turns me on big time). I had the best sex of my life, had a big orgasm, so did he. In the morning he was very gentle and made me coffee, hugged me and after that we hooked up, and we’re still together.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss STI history back then, but we used a condom for vaginal intercourse.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Honestly I was sad and lonely at the time, and I thought it would cheer me up.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had about 4 glasses of red wine, maybe more.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are in a relationship at the moment, we care a lot about each other.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? With 4 of my closest friends, they were happy for me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it was consensual for both me and my partner.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I do not.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes it changed the belief that casual sex can not lead to a perfectly healthy relationship. The best part of this hookup was the hot sex we had that night, and the worst…I really can not think of a bad thing about it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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