by Ana

Gender: Female
How old are you?: 18
Race/ethnicity: white
Location: Australia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: retail
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Boy With The Butt Tattoo

How long ago did this hookup happen? within the last 6 months

How would you best classify this hookup? one-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met my partner at a bar – It was late, i’d lost my friends and I was fairly inebriated. I saw him counting change to pay for a drink and awkwardly offered to buy it for him “because I’m a feminist”. I think at the time I thought I was super witty. He was around 6″4′, had long scruffy blonde hair tied in a messy bun. He was chubby, but the tall kind of chubby…and I was so into him. He bent down kissed me on the cheek and we went outside to talk.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started kissing when we were outside in the cold. He gave me his jacket and I felt so cute. I ended up finding my friends and saying bye so we could walk around the city together. 

We decided to walk and talk, and then he asked me if I wanted to come home with him. I said no at first because I was super nervous and hadn’t had sex since a bad relationship ended that year. We kept walking and it progressively got colder and colder. By this time is was around 5am. He asked if I just wanted to go home with him on the last bus and wait until morning/have breakfast – I sort of believed he wouldn’t try anything. We took the bus to his place and on the ride I decided I was too horny and drunk to care and that we were doing it. I told him and I’ll never forget how happy he looked, he lit up and just beamed….then proceeded to show me his boner.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got back to his and went to his bedroom. He had all these packages scattered everywhere which made me feel weird but alas – horny and drunk. 

We made out, got naked, and just stood opposite each other and laughed. I gave him a blow job. He gave me oral. He ‘titty fucked’ me and then asked to take a picture of my boobs because he couldn’t wrap his mind around how big they were (32F). I didn’t let him take the picture though haha
He fingered me for a long time, and had long nails which hurt like hell. He then tried to stick his bare pink dick in but I freaked out and told him to put on a condom, which he did reluctantly. 
(he had a really nice dick by the way, like the prettiest one i’ve ever seen) 

We started fucking and it felt so good, we kept flipping positions intuitively and it just felt really natural. Which was nice. It ended with him cumming in my mouth and me not because I never really do. He was a good lover, super soft when he touched me but also sort of aggressive when we had PIV sex. 

When it was over he stood up to grab a smoke. When he was standing I noticed he had a tattoo on his butt. It was of a piece of cheese with “Mrs. Doubtfire” written on it in fancy text. I started laughing and tried to get him to explain it, but he just stood their stone faced with his smoke saying “It’s personal”.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss any STI history, it didn’t suit the situation. HOWEVER A couple days after I had an unusually sore throat and was convinced I had oral gonorrhea – got tested and I didn’t. I’ve never had an STI, and I’ve never been pregnant.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny and drunk and hadn’t had sex in over a month. It seemed to make sense at the time, however it was my first one-night-stand.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots of alcohol was involved, because I tend to drink too much when I go out.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I asked him what all the packages were for, turns out he was a drug dealer. So there was that. I didn’t mind, it just made the whole situation so different. 

I left shortly after we fucked, went to work, and slept the rest of the afternoon away. He text me everyday for 2 weeks after that. I felt really bad because I think he wanted more out of it then i’d planned. I told him in the end not to pin any hopes on me, but that he was a brilliant guy who was great in bed and made me laugh. He was really nice about it and respected me in saying that. We haven’t talked since and sometimes I do wonder what it would have been like if I’d taken him up on dating.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my younger sisters when I thought I had an STI, and they helped me out with that. I told a good friend and the friends I was out with that night knew as well. I sort of just feel whatever about it all – it happened, it was good, I’m good, he’s good.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both of us – the perfect example of consent actually, we were both really vocal about being into each other and happy to be having sex.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I don’t, I did briefly the day after, but not anymore. I’m happy to add it to the list of sexcapades I’ve been on.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about it was having sex with someone completely different who I had no ties to. It made me feel more comfortable in my sexuality and in my self confidence. I’d definitely have one-off sex again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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