by Nick

Gender: Male
Age: 35/25 Then
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Boston
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Psychologist
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A Few

The Cable Girl

How long ago did this hookup happen? Ten Years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One Time Thing

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Greta was the woman they had sent to install my cable shortly after I finished college. I was out living on my own for the first time, and sitting here thinking here I am 25 years old with two PhDs and I can’t figure out how the hell to hook the cable into my TV.
Greta was heavy with somewhat messy brown hair in her mid-thirties. She was the type of woman I would normally not give a second look at even in that installer uniform (see The Cop and My Son’s Mom) and didn’t really speak to her much while she hooked my TV up other than she did ask for some water.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was just out of college, new to DC and living on my own truly for what was the first time. I had always had roommates in college and it was a bit more expensive than I had planned. I will admit I was a bit lonely.
Greta came to hook up my TV and she was friendly but I had a little work to do so I went to my office. I came out and she was sitting on my couch and had clearly been crying. I asked what was wrong and she said her soon to be ex-husband was being a jerk. Greta then kissed me and leaned back and opened a few buttons on her shirt and asked if I liked what I saw an I said yes. I kissed her this time and decided to go with it. She would have had sex right there but I took her by the arm and led her to my bedroom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Greta took her clothes off quickly, as I said she was pretty heavy with a lot of extra weight. She had a C-section scar and stretch marks, clearly a few pregnancies had taken their toll on her. However what she did have was what is to this day still the largest pair of breasts I have ever seen. They were big enough she did mention they were giving her back problems. She could see I liked them and walked over and let me suck them and lick them and bury my face in them, honestly they were nearly as big around as my head.
Greta then asked me to strip and I took my clothes off, and she began to kiss my neck and then my nipples, and worked her way down until she was giving me oral. She was quite good at this, slow and gentle with her licks and sucks and it took me a bit to get hard. Once she had me ready she used her mouth to put a condom on and then laid back and had me fuck her until I came. I then fingered her until she orgasmed and we laid there a few minutes.  
Greta asked if she could use my shower to clean up and I said yes. She was only in there a few minutes, dressed, and then gave me a kiss and thanked me for showing her some interest and then left.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I used a condom to be safe but we didn’t really discuss it.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was lonely and horny and Greta was willing.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not that I am aware of.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I have actually never heard from her again, can’t really call it a one night stand since it happened during the day. It was always different cable installers after her. To be honest I feel a little used about this one, but it wasn’t like I didn’t want it. No hopes for the future and as I said, I never heard from Greta again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never actually shared this one with anyone really.  Think I may have told The Cop when I was dating her, and don’t really remember how she reacted.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? For me yes and for Greta as well.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? A bit, as I said felt kind of used.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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