by Betty

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I’m interested in women.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? God knows- Sexual intercourse- over 25.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first.

The Christian Grey effect

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 2 years.

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall, handsome, athletic, chiselled body, very sexy. I met him whilst I was travelling and I guess it was easy to have hook-ups, whilst you’re travelling as no-one knows you, no-one knows whether this is the normal you (that sleeps with someone randomly) and you don’t have to ever see that person again- probably because either they will move on to some exotic location soon, or you will. So yes I think that’s when I had the most fun. I didn’t know him very well before it happened, he was just a guy from my hostel.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We (everyone from my hostel) went out for some drinks that night. As far as I can remember (a lot of alcohol was involved), we left early and started making out way back.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were making out in the toilets at the hostel in the early hours of the morning, he kept suggesting to me to get wet and steamy in the shower together. I wasn’t really up for this idea, seeing as I was aware that we were in a bathroom where everyone could come in freely and the showers didn’t have locks on. However I was still pretty drunk. I was enjoying kissing him in the bathroom and liked the thrill that anyone could walk in on us. I seem to always want to push it one step further.
I had recently been experimenting with being spanked and loved the feeling it gave me. So I asked ‘Ted’ if he could spank me. Now I have never been spanked really hard before, but Ted took off his belt, I stood against the wall with my nickers and shorts down and he thrashed my bare ass as hard as he could. It felt amazing.
We didn’t have sex. But my god did it feel good. And the sound of the belt whipping against my skin.
I didn’t orgasm but I didn’t care. I had fun and it felt good. I did a lot of crazy stuff like that on my gap year, but that’s what a gap year is all about, right?

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Bruises!

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish it wasn’t regarded with such filth by people. I think that as long as people are safe and use protection then it is your own personal choice what you do with your bodies and having casual sex can help to teach you a lot about your sexuality and make you the person you are.

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