by Alex

Gender: male
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: student
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

The Couch

How long ago did this hookup happen? February 2014

How would you best classify this hookup? booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? so i was visiting a friend, and a very cute looking guy messages me on a well known gay meeting app, he is tall, blonde, thin and quite handsome and also 19. It was rare to see such a good looking guy on there. So we talk for a couple of days and he finally invited me to his place.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to his place, and it was awkward at first, we sat on a strange green couch and started talking.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came closer to me on the couch, and we just stared at each other for some time, until i slowly leaned towards him until our lips were touching, and then we started making out. After some making out, he took off my shirt and slowly started kissing me on the neck and the chest. He then started stroking my bulge and finally unzipped my pants and started blowing me. It was a bit painful as he used a lot of teeth, after a while he started jerking me off and i finally came. He licked it from my chest, and then sat on top of me. I took off his t shirt and started kissing his body, then i unzipped his pants and started blowing him. After only a couple of minutes he came. Then we talked for a bit more and i left.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? no precautions

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? experimenting i guess

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? a bottle of red wine

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I kind of liked the guy, but after a couple of days we kind of stopped talking, more or less his decision. I don’t feel anything about him now, but if he ever wants to do it again i would agree i guess.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? i first talked about it one night to my best friend, it was the night i also came out as bisexual, but overall he took it very well and asked me for details

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yeah i guess it was wanted from both sides

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? i guess it was nice to hook up with a good looking guy, it was my first gay experience so yeah i am glad i discovered that part of my sexuality

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

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