by ann

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Hispanic
Current location: Florida U.S
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Entrepreneur
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Cowboy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 1/2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We first saw each other at a horse show.  I saw him get off a paso fino when he stared directly at me. He is 5’7″ tall with a million dollar tan, remarkable smile not to forget that sexy look in his eyes. I had never seen him before, but some family of mine did know him. We were at the stables where they were making tacos and i thought to myself what a handsome man. I noticed him stare at me a few times, then this once our eyes locked and i just blushed. The night went on and he was drunk by then, that was a turn off for me. But before leaving i said goodbye to him and he went straight for a kiss on my cheek. Later i regretted not catching his name or something he was a fine looking man. And i knew he wanted to meet me too but didnt get the chance

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Around 2 to 3 months later i was invited to a birthday party, and there he was. Am i dreaming or is this real! Its the cowboy from before!!! I said so happy, my sister thought i was crazy. During our time there we just stared at one another with desire. It was obvious we wanted one another. Just when i was about to leave he grabbed my wrist begging me to not go yet. I would love to stay i said but i have to go. The day after i got a friend request from him and i was happy as a child. We talked online leading to some dates which in one he showed me a video of 2 horses mating and i thought it was weird. Things began to get complicated after finding out that he was a nephew of one of my mom’s cousins. Which meant we shared family. That didn’t stop him from asking me to go out secretly. And i agreed. He picked me up in his pick-up truck around 11 pm that hot summer night at the beginning of August.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drove to the ranch where he had been working. It was raining a little bit but we were desperate so we went on walking to an unoccupied office space inside the actual ranch. Since the door was locked he went in through the window to then let me in. He placed a blanket on the bare floor and kissed me passionately before laying me down. We heard the rain fall and heard one of the horses nicker. At first i got nervous but he told me it was just a horse making sounds. Then He kissed all over my neck and my ex boyfriend had never done something quite like that so i felt great. He then took off my shirt and bra and played with my breasts. Afterwards he took off my pants slowly then ate me out, it was amazing!!! I told him to penetrate slowly because i was nervous and his cock was big. He did it with care and was moaning from pleasure. I cried out his name a few times and told him to keep on going faster and harder then slow again. After an hour we took a brake and talked about how much he liked being with me and how crazy we were. The second time i decided to go on top we both loved it. Afterwards we laid there talking about one another and i asked him “you haven’t told me your age.” He laughed and said “it’s best if i don’t, you might get scared.” I told him i wouldn’t there was no reason for me to! “Im 35” he said a bit worried. “Naa!” I said shocked i was 18 then well in a week i would be 19. “See i told you it was bad.” Thinking about it i replied “no, to me its pretty hot and sexy plus you look like 28 to me.” He smiled it was possible to see that since the rain had stop and the moonlight was coming in through a window. He started calling me his peach because i had very soft skin. Once ready to go he said if i regretted everything that had just happen. I said not at all in fact that i had loved it so much because it felt like the first time to me. He smiled and asked, “then will you have my children? ”

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes we both did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We had talked about STIs before. And we did not use protection.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were both attracted to each other.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? He was nervous and had a can of bud light.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We wanted more. So two days later we met again and had sex. 4 days later he left to another town 5 hours away. And before leaving  to his country we hooked up once more. I waited for him for months with my hopes up very high, hoping we would be more than friends. When he finally came back he already had a girlfriend back in his hometown. I guess i gave him the cookie too easy but we are friends and we enjoy being together so much.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked about it with a cousin. He was shocked said we were crazy doing that. To the day he still asks i say nothing just smile.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all. It felt amazing and awesome. He is a very great man.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is that we wanted one another so bad and we got what we wanted. And we became friends. The worst is probably when i missed him after he left and then finding out he has a girlfriend.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Well me and the cowboy still have casual sex once in a while. Everytime he arrives in town he will let me know. We get together and fuck so hard. Who knows when the next time will be!

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