by Claire

Gender: Female

Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Scientist
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 48
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Crazy Canadian Girl

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this girl online. I don’t meet many girls online, as a bi girl who likes fairly feminine girls, I find it hard to meet girls online as most aren’t what I am looking for, or it is hard to get to the meeting stage. This chick was hot. She looked a lot like Katy Perry, although I have to say I barely could name a Katy Perry song if my life depended on it. She had a bit of a wild streak about her and sent me a photo of her legs in a short tight dress, showing off her thigh tattoos which rode up high on each leg. I have to say, I was keen ha.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She was new to Brisbane, had moved from Canada to live with her Aunt for a few months as an adventure. I knew we had no long term future, as she was in her early 20s and seemed to plan her life week to week. But I am always up for a bit of fun, so I offered to show her a good night in the city.

We went for afternoon drinks in a bar at Southbank, on the Brisbane river. Both of us were backing up after big nights previously, and the chance of things going badly were high. We didn’t really have a lot in common, but the vodkas bound our conversation and the 2 bottles of wine over dinner DEFINITELY helped make it a fun night.

We swam in our undies in the fake beach and kissed in the water. At 7pm. We were the epitome of class in a place frequented by children in the daytime. We made out on the ferris wheel that every city has. On the floor. I felt like a drunken horny tourist in the city I live in and couldn’t wait to drag this girl home.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? By the time we got back to my place we both were obviously very drunk. She had shown me her pierced nipples earlier in the night and they had been playing on my mind ever since. She was very sexy and I probably made more moves than she did (my inner horny teenage boy ha). I went down on her and she showed a vague interest in reciprocating. However, after orgasming, she serenely rolled over and slept. I have to say I was a little put out, but at the same time, it didn’t take long before I was sound asleep too.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? There was no discussion of STIs. I have found it a pretty non existent topic in girl- girl hookups.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Just a bit of fun really 🙂

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Too much alcohol really, but a lot of fun was had. I met some guys who were in a pirate metal band and made plans to audition with them to play flute in their band. I do actually play flute, but mainly wanted to wear a corset on stage haha. THAT is the level of alcohol consumed. We talked about trying to get coke, but that never happened.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Both of us were pretty hungover the next day and most of our conversation centred around that. I didn’t expect anything further from our meeting as it seemed kinda obvious it was a one-off thing.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told a lot of people that night while I was drunk ha. Just my friends mainly. Found it funny that people thought she was Katy Perry and I told people I was going to be famous in some little known Brisbane pirate band.
I was universally mocked. Haha. I now can’t see anything to do with Katy Perry without my friends giving me shit.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was definitely consensual from my end and I am assuming from her’s although I don’t think I was her type. She was  a wild party girl and I think we were just coming from different places in life.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I don’t regret it. It was one of the most fun dates that I have had. There was no pressure to try to impress, we just had childish fun.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was being with a hot girl, her feisty-ness and general attitude. The worst thing was probably knowing that she wouldn’t have even considered seeing me again if she was staying around.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positiveAll things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Not all Canadians say ‘aboot’ instead of ‘about’! Haha

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