What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? U.S.
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? x
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a 5’10 white guy with black hair. He had an average body (not overweight but not fit either). We met on Grindr he was a nearby bi guy looking for safe fun. After learning he’d be into being a top and seeing his cock was about the same size as mine (thick and 6” or so) we agreed to meet at his place discreetly. I felt turned on that he liked my body and was interested.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hooked up at his place, and a lot of horny texting led up to it haha. We planned to jerk off and see where it went, but he knew I wanted to bottom with a condom, and I’d say we both instigated it mutually.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We both sat on the couch and started talking about where we were from. He was complimentary, saying how he thought I was hot and how he wanted to see my cock. We both pulled our dicks out and started stroking each other. He wanted to suck me and make out too, but I wasn’t interested in taking that risk with him yet. I insisted he take me in his room and fuck me with a condom on instead. He happily agreed and then next thing I know I’m on my back, legs up in the air, with him talking dirty to me saying things like, “your ass is so tight man”. I liked to be controlled and started to moan for his cock while saying “mmm fuck me harder, cum for me, cum all over me“. He very quickly complied and his cock shed the condom he had on and sprayed all over my hot body. (I came simultaneously) He nearly had an asthma attack too, and apologized saying that happens sometimes lol. Clearly he liked my ass and I liked seeing someone use it the way I feel it can be used. He felt good, still haven’t found the one I’m looking for to be honest. When it ended I got up to the bathroom, quickly wiped off, threw on my clothes, and said see you later.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I was still feeling horny about the encounter. As for the future I’m unsure if it will happen again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Submission / Relinquishing power, Boredom, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The submission to another guy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He wasn’t all I truly desire, but got the job done for me at the time.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Kind of. Just reinforces the idea of me actually wanting more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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