by GingerMinx

Gender: Female
Age: 39
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: U.S.
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Self-Employed
Relationship status: In an LTR (Long Term Relationship), Common Law
Religious affiliation: None – Raised Mormon
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Mostly men, but I do love women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

The Foursome That Wasn’t

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1996

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Group Sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mandi was a friend of mine who’d recently blossomed from what she called an “awkward skinny ugly duckling” into an incredibly hot blonde. She was a 10, no doubt. We were both dating guys, but she had made several attempts to come on to me. I admit, I was very interested, but also extremely shy about being with a girl at the time.
(See “My First Lesbian Experience” for more details on Mandi)

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Mandi was extremely sexual at this time in her life, having spent much of her teens feeling unattractive.  I was in the same place.  I’d spent years as an awkward, freckly teen and had just recently discovered how much certain men viewed redheads as the ultimate sexual experience, so I was determined to explore. Bottom line, we were both very open about sex and the guys we were dating at the time (who were best friends) were more than happy to explore with us.
I’m pretty certain it was Mandi who suggested one night we all get a hotel room and fuck in front of each other. I remember she jokingly said to her boyfriend “I want to watch {ME} while she’s riding {My boyfriend’s} cock” because it sent shock waves all through me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started out at a bar, had a few drinks and a pretty decent time.  Then the guys left to grab a room and we met them there.  On the way over in the car, Mandi grabbed my tits a few times while I was driving & I loved every minute of it but was too shy to respond. I distinctly remember Melissa Etheridge’s “Like The Way I Do” was playing because I thought it a little ironic. There was always sexual tension between Mandi & I.
Once we got to the room, we had a few more drinks and got started.  My boyfriend & I always started with oral first so he began by going down on me while I watched Mandi and her boyfriend 69. She was on top of him so I could see her writhing while she sucked his cock. I had never done anything like this before and it was probably the first time I realized how much I like watching others. Mandi obviously did too, because she stopped sucking her boyfriend’s cock to watch me suck my boyfriend’s cock. It was arousing, knowing she was watching me. It made me wetter.
Eventually Mandi & I both ended up riding our boyfriends cowboy style. This was the most erotic moment of the night for me because we were both positioned in such a way that we could watch each other at the same time while we rode cock. She started playing with her nipples while she watched me glide my wet pussy up and down my boyfriend’s slick cock and I couldn’t help but do the same while I watched her.  We were sliding up and down those smooth cocks in unison and breathing in sync as we watched each other. It’s a visual I will always remember.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No, I didn’t.  I was too self-conscious, (I had a mountain of mental blocks to get over at the time) so I just faked it.  Mandi, and the two guys all claim to have orgasmed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. I had been with this guy many times before and he was clean. He pulled out.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sexual curiosity, and secretly wanting to be with a woman but not knowing how to go about it so I figured this was the next best thing. It’s very rare indeed for me to turn down a good fucking.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, alcohol. Several drinks.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We all continued to hang out, it was’t weird at all. I admit I liked the guy I was dating at the time but he got back together with his ex-girlfriend & I moved to another state. Eventually we all lost touch. Glad it happened, though. It was hot hot hot. It made me realize I would love to do it again, or even have full on group sex.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have only told one person about it, a friend whom I text with every once in a while. He and I both share the same sentiments about group sex and voyeurism.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was watching Mandi play with herself while I was being penetrated by someone else. 
Worst? looking back, I would have loved to have taken it further into group sex, but not sure the guys would have gone for it since they were friends. Plus, I was too shy to instigate it and no one else did.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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