by Fliss

Gender: Female
Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: White British
Location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Open Relationship/ Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The French Guy

How long ago did this hookup happen? A few weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night-stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? About 5′ 11, tanned, quite handsome, piercing green eyes. I met them in a club in South London the night we banged. I was slightly bewildered by them to be honest.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On the dance floor, he instigated it and pursued me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? They were definitely a good lover – lots of oral (mainly me performing though) no anal sex but lots of different positions: it was a very liberating experience, I didn’t orgasm but he came four times. He wrote his number on a Topshop receipt and left in the afternoon.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I just wanted to have fun.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots of alcohol and MDMA. 
So much so, I was making enough noise to warrant three of the neighbours from calling to ask what was going on.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t text him, I’m not looking for anything.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told some friends they found it funny.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Completely consensual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that the sex was very good. The worst was that I was too intoxicated to remember it properly.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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