What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Cape Town
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The friends wife
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was short but good looking with big tits. That was what attracted me to her first. I was leaving her house after chatting to her husband and looked back to see her standing at the door. She was wearing a t-shirt and shorts which showed off her big tits. I knew then I wanted to fuck her, but made no move, being married.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day I phoned her house looking for my wife. She wanted to know if that was just an excuse to speak to her. It wasn’t, I really was looking for my wife. We chatted for a bit and then she told me she was very attracted to me. I was surprised since we had never had any serious contact before. Anyway, the next day I made some excuse to go to her house knowing her husband would be at work. Her kids were at home, but I managed to get her alone for a few moments and we kissed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She phoned me at work to chat, and feeling very horny, I asked her to meet me at a nature reserve near by. When I got there she was sitting in her car. I went to the window and told her to take off her knickers. I got in to the car and we started to kiss, while I played with her pussy. She was soon wet, and I was hard as a rock. I set the seat back and she straddled me. We fucked like that until I came.
We met regularly after that. I would lick her pussy while fingering her asshole until she came. Then I would fuck her in all positions til I came. I tried to fuck her in the ass once but she found it too painful.
We stopped because we realized our spouses would be really hurt if we were found out.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A bit guilty, but not enough to stop.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I was married and knew my wife would be hurt if she found out. Also her husband was a friend.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to fondle and kiss her wonderful big tits and having my cock in her tight pussy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it had to end
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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