by xime
Gender: Female
Age: 24

Race/ethnicity: Hispanic
Location: Buenos Aires
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero


The girl and the Pizza Boy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This guy, he was a pizza boy. He delivered pizza for the bartenders at the bar I went to that night. I don’t remember his name, but he was an all Argentine guy, with a horrible goatee but handsome in some way. He had to deliver some pizzas for the bartenders to eat, and he stayed for a beer. So I was sitting at the bar, talking to some friends, and he came to talk to me, and we ended up bar hopping to my house. The sex was good, and I didn’t feel bad at all, but it was uncomfortable to go back to that bar, because I didn’t want to bump in to him again… I never answered his messages.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook up began at the last bar, even though he was hitting on me from the first moment. We started dancing and he just kissed me, and no, there was no planning at all.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hook up was just casual vaginal sex, nothing kinky… I usually don’t do kinky stuff, and if I do, I need to trust the other person. I felt happy because I was having uncommitted sex with someone I didn’t really care about. It sounds harsh, but at that moment I wasn’t even close to wanting a relationship or wanting to care for someone. I didn’t orgasm because again, I need to trust the guy to be able to get there, but he did… He treated me with respect all the time, but I wouldn’t say he was a good lover. It was the “same old, same old” type of sex. We didn’t chat much. He stayed the night and left early in the morning. He had to go back to work at the pizza place, I guess…

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss anything about STI or pregnancy, but we did use a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was a fun night out, and I guess I just wanted to have sex that night…

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol, a lot of alcohol….

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing. We never talked again… I felt fine. I wouldn’t do it again with this person. I hope I don’t bump in to him again. I think about it as if it was a phase in my life, when I used to randomly hook up with men. Now I’m in a serious relationship and I don’t feel ashamed about my past, at all.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my girl friend, the bartender at the bar where I met the pizza boy…  She laughed, and told me he was kinda’ cute anyways!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, in every way

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is that it’s a funny story to tell, and nothing more… The worst part is that now every time I walk around the pizza place he works at, I’m a little paranoid.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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