What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
The Girl From The Gay Bar
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a tall Dutch girl with long black hair, slim build, petite boobs, and a bubble butt. We had only met a week earlier at a Gay bar. I was curious about her because she was 25 and I had just turned 21.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was out with my university roommates and the girls wanted to go to a gay bar so that they could dance without being hit on. During the night the tall girl came over and asked if I was gay or straight because her gay friends were talking about me. I said I was straight and proceeded to talk with her. She said that she would not sleep with me that night because she was busy the next day and I also was out with my friends. But she said that I should call her the next morning. I did and we went on to organize a date in a smaller city on a Sunday afternoon.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was a bit nervous because I knew I was cheating on my girlfriend at the time. She had mentioned that she was not very experienced in bed. I was about to go down on her and she said she was nervous about being eaten out but, that she had never given a blowjob and wanted to try it on me. It really felt good, especially being her first time. We then had intercourse, first missionary, then cowgirl, then doggy. I was taking a while to cum due to the anxiety of cheating, but she was enjoying it. We had to stop twice because she said I felt quite big inside and it had been a while. She was really cool about it and we cuddled after although I didn’t finish. She said that she came during cowgirl. Being a douche I said, “another satisfied client”. Later o,n she said that this comment hurt her because she really liked me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt guilty because i did cheat on my current girlfriend. But very happy that I conquered a 25 year old lady from a Gay bar.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? To feel more confident, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommate, And she was really happy for me
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact that it was a really mature Hookup
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t cum
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent I will contribute more
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