by Ashley

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: White/Caucasian
Current location: New York
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Occupation: Cashier
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Bi-curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Good Old Times

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex with an ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is mixed with dark hair, nice round buttocks, and quite hairy. He is also very skinny with a large package. I’ve known him since I was 15, we met at a park and we first had sex when I was 16. We broke up quite some months back so that I could see other people and because he was cheating on me. I moved back home recently and realized that I wanted to be single, and that I wasn’t in love with him like I used to be.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I spent the night at his house after not seeing him for months. We were watching a movie and laying down in bed in the dark. I hadn’t planned on sleeping with him, although I remembered how good he was in the sack and I wanted a taste of it again. He made the first move by putting his hand on my inner thigh.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After a while of him caressing my thighs, I turned towards him and we started kissing. He rolled on top of me and we stripped while making out. He went down on me for a few minutes, but I’m not a big fan of it, so I traded and started giving him a blowjob. He started breathing heavily and then shoved me back onto the bed and entered me. The sex was amazing, exactly as I remember it. This was the first time I had had sex with somebody that I wasn’t in love with, and it was quite nice. He was trying to be a little romantic about the kissing, but I didn’t mind. We didn’t really talk much before or directly after. It ended with him coming inside of me. At least, the first time ended that way. We had sex four times in that 24-hour period.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t have an orgasm the first time, but he did. I had one the second and third time, although not the last time. He had one every time except for the second time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use any condoms or birth control, he can’t have children. I’ve known him for quite some time, so I knew that he didn’t have anything.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had just been through three bad breakups in a row and I realized that I wanted to have sex and enjoy myself. My last boyfriend complained about having sex too often, I wanted a release and I figured an ex was a safe one. I knew his sexual past, I knew he couldn’t have children, and I knew he was good in bed.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had one beer and he had three quarters of a beer and some liquor.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I fell asleep and went to work early the next morning. I came back after work and we had sex twice more, then I went home. I haven’t seen him since. I feel happy that I got some sexual release, and that I’m not attached to him anymore. I have no real expectations besides I hope that we stay fuck-buddies. I feel like he is a cool guy, nothing more than that, really.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend and she wasn’t surprised. I had already expressed that I needed to have good sex to her and I told her that I was going to stay the night at his place.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? This was consensual for both my partner and I.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I have no regrets about the hookup.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that I no longer had feelings for him and it was a liberating experience to just enjoy the sex portion of it. Also, the sex was amazing. The worst part about it is that he has a girlfriend and I have helped him cheat now. This experience has shown me that sex can be enjoyed without emotions.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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