What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Freelancer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
The Heavens Over Berlin
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M was tall dark haired and gorgeous. Slight beard, light green eyes very smiley. I had met in on Tinder the previous year whilst we were both living and working in Asia. We had hung out a few times in Asia and we had great chemistry but never had sex, came close to having sex once but it just didn’t happen. He returned to Germany and I later returned the U.K. After the near-hook up in Asia I felt comfortable staying in touch with this person but didn’t anticipate much coming out of it sexually. We’d said it’d be nice to meet up once we were both back in Europe but that there was no pressure to do so. He was a nice chap, I was not averse to seeing him again but wouldn’t have been upset if that stint in Asia had been the end of our friendship
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I flew over the to vacation/ procrastinate from doing my thesis on a solo trip.The hook up began at dinner in Berlin. I reached out to him and I had asked if he could recommend some stuff for me to do whilst I was in town. He suggested we meet up and asked where I was staying and if there was a possibility he could stay the night with me. He initiated it by asking to stay with me but I guess I did by being there and messaging him.
All night at dinner I couldn’t get over how hot he looked in his blue shirt. There was nothing special about that shirt now that I think about it, but DAMN! Maybe it was the fact that it had nearly been 8 months since I last saw him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we arrived at my hotel I had to use the bathroom. When I was done he was sat on the bed and I went sat on his lap, wrapped my arms around neck and we began to make out. We were both very keen The sexual tension that had built up throughout the night erupted, he soon had me laying on my back with him straddled in between my legs grinding against me. I could feel his hardened cock through his boxers and I was red hot and so wet.
One by one, the items of clothing were flung onto the floor. Bra first and he paid careful attention to my boobs, sucking them in a hungry and breathy manner! I ran my hands through his gorgeous dark hair as he kissed me all over. Oh. My. Goodness. He looked me right in the eye as he used his fingers to play with my pussy and he could tell he was driving me crazy. He slid my panties off and soon had his head between my legs, giving me pleasure! Again, I loved running my hands and pulling his hair as I was going through the motions. He was very affectionate, playful and he took cues to my moans, groans, and thrusts very well. It felt amazing, it was like I’ve-missed-you-sex without the missing someone part.
I couldn’t wait to get him in my mouth. I pulled his face out of my pussy and we made out some more. We flipped the script and I had him lying on his back. I kissed him all over, as we say at dinner I’m imagined running my hands across his torso and along his waistline. This drove him crazy and I continued to tease him as I kissed and licked in all the right places. He began thrusting his hips ups and his impatience grew and then I decided it was time. I told him to look at me and I stuck my tongue out and took his dick into my mouth. I held the eye contact as I took him in, inch by inch. The look on his face made me so horny and I began to hum to increase the pleasure he was feeling! I love giving blowjobs so I really went to work on him.
We started fucking in missionary and he soon had my legs over his shoulders. I guided his hand around my neck and we played around with different grips. This added to the experience as I love a little rough play. I started to feel this sensation in my lower stomach as though I wanted to poo (even though I didn’t, I think was close to orgasm) so we switched things up! He put one of my legs down and continued to drill me until he came.
Whilst, I was sat on top riding him he told me to turn around which I thought meant he wanted to go into reverse cowgirl but instead he pulled me so I was sat on his face. My first 69 experience! It took me some time to get into the rhythm of things but I liked it in the end.
We fucked in doggy style, my favorite. He picked up the hints about the level of rough play in the first round I liked so I was keen when he pulled my hair whilst fucking me from behind. He really outdid himself here. We were loud as well, I say we mainly me! He bust a nut whilst we were in doggy, with my legs over his shoulders and once in missionary both in a condom.
After the near miss during our previous overseas encounter I was very impressed that he managed to pull such a perfomance out of the bag!
After cleaning up, we arranged ourselves to get some sleep and I couldn’t help but slide my hand across his leg and give him a cheeky hand-job before we slept. He came everywhere and he joked about having to shower in the morning because he got some cum in his armpit. When we settled down to sleep we spooned, kissed and held hands
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After three rounds of hot steamy, it’s been way too long sex. We both cleaned up
He was sprawled across the bed and there was something so open and almost needed about the way he lay across me with his head on my breast as we talked about everything (his circumcision at 17 to basketball and police relations in Germany and the film The Heavens Over Berlin)! He asked if him laying there was annoying me and I said “no”. It was such a perfect moment. I liked the vibrations of his voice there as he spoke (I didn’t say that though) We caught up about what we’d both been up to since returning to the continent and other random chats, it was nice.
I was hoping to have some morning sex before we checked out but it was not happening on his end. Turns out he’s not a morning person. Ahh well.
We had brunch in the morning at a restaurant of his choosing. We kept in touch for a while after the hook-up and he planned on returning the visit to me in the UK. I was looking forward to said trip but he messaged me and said he’d recently started seeing someone and didnt want to mess things up with them by coming to visit me. I totally understood. We live in two different countries, we’re both interesting, intelligent attractive people. Given the lack of definition around our friendship, it didn’t come as a surprise that someone as attractive as him had met someone. I enjoyed the friendship, banter and sex we had for the duration of our friendship because it was fun. He’s someone I wouldn’t mind getting a pint with one day if we ended up in the same city.
No hard feelings.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend, she congratulated me since I hadn’t had sex since for over 8 months
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I felt wanted throughout, it was hot and really intense. It was gentle and rough and everything in between
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing from the top of my head. Except maybe wanting to do it again and now knowing that that’s probably not going to happen
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? N/A
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? To each their own. People ought to stop being so concerned about what other people are doing with their genitals.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great release. I have told this story to my best friend and there’s a level of detail I can go into here that I don’t feel I can with her. It’s let me re-live one of the best sexual experiences I’ve had this year
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