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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student & Babysitter
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Home Wrecker Babysitter

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 Months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m in my first year of college and I answered an add I posted on a website for babysitters. My resume is impressive because I’m the oldest of 5 kids, I’ve been a certified babysitter since I was 14 and I have plenty of references. I used to teach a Sunday School class before I moved off to college. I sound innocent but all my friends know I’m not. However, I can put on a good act to impress adults.

I got a notification from a family needing someone to watch kids. The pay was average but the hours would work perfectly with my school schedule. I wanted the job badly because the other option was working at a burger joint or the mall.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to their house for an interview. It was just the dad because the wife was at work. He was an accountant and looked like one too. He was in his late 40s, skinny, receding gray hairline, glasses & nerdy looking. His wife is a nurse that worked night shifts while he went to work early and put in long hours. He told me they have two older children in their mid 20s but they don’t live close to help. The kids I would be watching were twin boys age 8. They were a late in life surprise.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We concluded the interview and he told me he would have to go over things with his wife first. She wanted someone older with more experience. He had to convince his wife to interview me. We both stood up to leave and I made my move and got on my knees, unbuckled his pants and began sucking his dick. He dick was small and it took a few to get him hard. I dropped my shorts, bent over and told him he can fuck me as long as he doesn’t cum in me. He paused but finally slowly slid his dick in me. He played with my boobs while he fucked me. At one point he tried to stick his dick in my ass but I told him not today. He kept fucking me and I could tell he was getting close. I reminded him not to cum inside me. He grabbed my hips, pulled me tight then I felt warm cum. I was pissed but I let him finish. I held my position and let him deal with the leakage on the couch. I got dressed and left thinking I had the job.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got a text that afternoon from his wife. She said, “You’re a home wrecker, you slut and whore! Stay away from my family!” The guy must have felt bad and confessed to fucking me. I replied, “If you had been doing your job, your husband wouldn’t have been so eager to fuck me without a condom. Did he also tell you I got a load of his cum?”

I couldn’t believe it! That bastard! I’ve had sex with plenty of married men in the past and the one thing that’s safe is that they keep things quiet. I can’t believe this guy would tell his wife! I let him fuck me raw, asked him not to cum inside me but he does anyway.

I never heard from them again. She tried to get my profile kicked off the website babysitters but they would only allow her to give me a bad review.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My boyfriend.
He’s cool about things and we have an open relationship. He thought it sucked the guy told his wife.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Going to an interview for a babysitting job and having sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The guy came inside me when I kept asking him not to. I’m on birth control but it’s not 100%

He told his wife and she contacted me.

Finally, I let the guy fuck me but I didn’t get the job! What an insult. LOL

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have not changed the way I feel about having casual sex with someone I just met.

My boyfriend and I have agreed to keep our open relationship but we will insist on using a condom with other partners from now on.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People think I’m very innocent but actually, I enjoy having sex with people I meet. I’m a cross country runner so I’m tall and lean. I have a great body and I love sharing it with other guys. I’ve been fortunate to have sex with many guys and I’ve enjoyed each experience.

I think people can have casual sex without having an intimate relationship.

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