What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Truck driver
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Hookah Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was tall, slim, had light brown skin, and braided hair. I had just met her that day. We met at a hookah bar and I noticed her nipples were pierced so we talked about those for about 10 minutes. I could tell she was trying to make a good impression, but I just told her that she didn’t need to as I was already attracted to her, and to just relax and enjoy the moment. I personally wasn’t interested in having a long drawn-out conversation with her because she had already decided we were going to have sex and I was simply wanted her to feel comfortable before I took her back to my house.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Hook up again on Tinder. I messaged her that I was looking for a casual sex partner and I asked if she was interested. She said she was but she wanted to meet me first so we planned to meet at a hookah bar of her choice.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we got back to my house we both went upstairs to my bedroom. She took off her shoes and used the bathroom. Then I took off her clothes and my pants, and she started sucking my dick. I didn’t want to finish in her mouth just yet so I put her legs back and licked her pussy and her clit. I put on a condom and fucked her in her creamy pussy. The night ended with both of us coming, wiping off, and getting dressed. As I was driving her home she revealed to me that this was her first Tinder hook-up experience. Jokingly I turned to her and said “we hope you’ve enjoyed your Tinder experience, we hope to see you again” we both just laughed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We never talked again after that night. I really enjoyed her company and I had hoped to see her again, but I have yet to hear from her to this day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel more confident, Making new friends, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing about this hook up was that it reaffirmed my belief that even though two people have just met they can still make a connection to where they feel comfortable enough with each other that they can have sex with each other and not feel guilty or worry about what other people think.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I think the worst thing about the hook up was the fact that it didn’t happen again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This hookup reaffirmed my belief that casual sex is not a bad thing and should not be treated as a bad thing.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Most of my sexual experiences have been casual sex experiences. I wish casual sex was treated more positively then it is.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this forum is needed. I think people should be able to openly talk about casual sex and their positive experiences from it.
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