What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Saint Louis
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Political Representative
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Hot Bosnian
How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was clean-shaven, great smile, gelled hair, designer clothes, smelled great, muscular but a little chubby, Bosnian accent. I didn’t know him, I met him in a park and I needed a ride home. He was very nice and charming.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He gave me a ride home from the park, which I was reluctant to accept, but he smiled and was very charming. When I got out of the car, he got out and pulled me by my waist and gave me a very deep, romantic kiss. We exchanged numbers, and he was going to come back over. I had a boyfriend, but he insisted to come over soon.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had rough sex. Twice. He laid me down and put my legs up and fucked my pussy fast. His hungry eyes were sexual. My vagina is dripping wet. Then, he leans me over me and we kiss. He embraces me, while fucking me, and we tongue kiss. His lips are soft and I embrace his face and I run my fingers through his soft hair. He turns me over and fucks me doggy and spanks my ass. Then, I ride him. I am going too slow, so he lifts up my ass and fucks me hard and deep. I suckhis dick and deep throat it and wrap my mouth tight around his hard cock. I gently rotate my tongue around his tip, awhile gently caressing his balls, and this makes him twitch and grin. I was giving him brief eye contact while this. Then, I lick up from his balls, to his tip, to his waist, to his neck to kiss him. He asks if we can do anal, and I say yes. He gently puts the tip in and I moan deeply. He goes faster, and it hurts at first, but him gripping my waist with care eases the pain. I turn and look back at him and he’s dripping in sweat from his chest and his forehead, and breathing deeply. His dick feels like it was fit for my pussy, and the sex was too good. I grab his hand as he pounds me deeply. We exchanged a few words, but one I most recall was him cumming in my ass, the first time, and his eyes were so confused and star-struck looking, and he whispers into my ear, “I love you.” He says this to me twice during our hook-up, which confused me. But anyways, we get on the bed and he grabs my waist and fucks my ass again. He says, “play with your pussy, baby,” and I do, and he’s touching my vagina. He also ate me out too, and it was really good, because his tongue was so soft. I cum so hard it feels like the light of the universe. His hard cock in my ass, his fingers in my dripping pussy, and me masturbating. I cry out a moan, he busts all over my tits, he grabs my ass and spanks my ass hard. When we finished, we stand, he hugs me hard, and tongue kisses me, while grabbing my ass. He whispers, “I love you,” as he sucks my neck. We are both disoriented, high-like, and sweaty. We smoke Newports together.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We texted a little. I felt awesome the next day, but I felt like shit the days after when he quit texting me. My expectations/hopes for the future with this person were to possibly pursue a relationship, but I was a hoe back then, so I can see why it didn’t happen. I felt like shit 3-7 days afterwards because it was the best sex ever, but I cheated on my boyfriend for it. I might call him back up soon, even though it’s been almost a year, but I don’t know.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish,
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends, they were surprised, happy for me, and a little jealous because he was fine and the sex was great.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Because things didn’t go farther.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He fucked me good.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He didn’t call me back.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I didn’t pursue casual sex after this. But, it made my interest in Bosnian/Arabian men increase significantly.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is more about getting the unrealistic. People want to fufill their fantasies. It made me feel like a hoe at first, but now I realize I’m just a sexual human being with sexual desires. I think men should not play with female’s emotions, and be honest about wanting casual sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it is very informative and interesting.
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