What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Job Trailer
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was on the tall side of average height with and naturally muscled (from a physically demanding job). Short brown hair, beautiful blue/green eyes, and a broad smile. Very handsome, with an asshole charm. I knew him professionally – both employed by the same entity but through different companies at the same job site. The moment I met him and he looked me in the eyes, I KNEW it would happen. I was instantly drawn in. We’ll call him Ziad.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As I said, I knew it would happen and that it was just a matter of time. To be truthful, my other co-worker accidentally instigated it. I had gone for Friday drinks with him, and he decided to start drunkenly texting Ziad about me- in very inappropriate ways. This was what led to Z getting my number. I apologized to him the next morning, and he took it well and threw in a flirt. Come Monday morning; he started texting me to find out where I was. I had to be away for the next two days at another job site. It didn’t take long for the sexting to start (and I’m sure my blushing face was obvious to the other co-worker I was with). I agreed to meet him at the job site trailer on my way back into town. As I walked toward him, I said something cheeky about my job. He stood up and kissed me passionately then and there, following up by groping my breasts. Then, someone walked into the job trailer. I quickly sat down at the other laptop and pretended to be typing away, on an obviously black screen. The intruder spoke to Z for a bit, then left. We had quite the laugh over nearly being caught.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I’m not 100% on the timeline, but this event was about two days after our first “encounter” (it may have been the following week). We continued our sexting, and again I agreed to meet him at the job trailer after hours. This time, things got down to business pretty quickly. The job trailer had windows everywhere at a fairly active site. I straddled and kissed him briefly, nervously snaking my hands south and fumbling with his belt. I looked him in the eyes as I went down on my knees and he helped me pull it out. He was already nice and hard. I flicked my tongue over the head teasingly as I looked up at him, grinning. Stroking his shaft, I took him in my small mouth and rhythmically worked my way up and down. I stroked his stomach with my free hand, keeping eye contact the entire time. That’s the thing with Z – he keeps those amazing eyes trained on mine, something we find mutual pleasure in. It was hot, and he had been working outside much of the day and carried a strong masculine odor. It only made me hunger for his cum more. It didn’t take much more than five minutes for him to shoot his load in my mouth and I happily swallowed every. last. drop. Just as he was finishing, he received a text from another co-worker that read “THAT’s a mouthful.” Perfect timing. It turns out, he had been texting this person about a big word, and that’s what they were referring to. We had a good laugh about it, relieved that our secret wasn’t out. As we both had to leave, I popped a mint into my mouth, and he kissed me on the forehead, thanking me. I felt that giddy sexual high as I went to go finish up some work duties, not even realizing I had a trace of his cum still on my chin as I walked past some straggling workers. Ah well, I would wear it as a badge of honor.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued our flirtation and sexual meetups whenever we could. From the beginning, there were no “expectations”.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. It’s our little secret, and always will be.
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Raging attraction, exhibitionism.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Z’s life. There’s an existing commitment.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I broke a barrier I thought I wouldn’t. I’m still not entirely sure how I feel about that.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Truthfully, I think it has created a lot of problems in our society in a multitude of ways. And apparently, I have no problem contributing to that.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Intriguing.
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