Highest education received: High school diploma
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Cristian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? A manly man.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
The Karma Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? Circa 2010
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mistook her for a white girl. Light skinned reddish haired Mexican born girl. Petite complexion and skinny for my taste but she did have a perfectly balanced body. Very fit. Beautiful face. I knew her very well the night it happened. Never had I hooked up with her. Meet her in church when I was 18 she was 16, attraction didn’t come till after she turned 18 which was when I actually fell for her. At the time she was head over heels for another dude. So I was heart broken; whatever time passed we kept somewhat of a consistent friendship but I eventually got over her in the sentimental way that is. I still would bang if the chance presented. Wasn’t until I hooked up with one of her friends (I’ll share that on a different story haha) that she became interested in me. I was still attracted to her before the hook up but just that. She was gorgeous.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We would talk over the phone for hours. Sometimes even talking and describing about the things we could do. She wanted to know how I managed to hook up with her friend. She wanted a vivid live description of how and what we did.. We can say she was the instigator. So without planning anything beforehand I told her I’d pick her up. So I got ready.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I took her for a walk at the park. (Not the best idea but I wasn’t trying to make it a special date), eventually we ended back in my car and that’s when nature said: “action”. She asked me to describe and show her exactly how the hook up with her friend went down exactly. In my mind I chuckled. So I grabbed her hands and started French kissing her. She hopped on to my side of the car and sat on top of me. As I kissed her neck I simultaneously pulled the seat lever to recline it. Trying to be smooth but the seat due to the weight pretty much took a free fall but it was ok. That took us to the back seat. I pushed the seat forward and began to take her shirt off. She was submissive. Very submissive. I took her bra off and began doing what all guys do. Then at a point she pushed me back and said it was her turn. She undid my zipper and I smiled knowing I was freaky trimmed. She performed oral sex on me. Very very talented gal. This was the first of many encounters with her but this first one in particular didn’t end up with intercourse the fact being it was very uncomfortable in my sports car and well we were pretty much in a public place at night she was a bit nervous someone would see us. We were still good friends so I really did appreciate her in a good way. We didn’t talk much but we did agree to try again so I knew I had me the perfect fuck buddy.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use protection. We had a really close friendship so we trusted each other. We did discuss the possibility or using protection for the sake or health concerns.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? She is a very attractive girl. I was just in the heat of the moment so why not? We were friends and we felt comfortable sharing that kind sexual affection.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No drugs or alcohol.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt like the man haha.
She did eventually end up liking me and seeing me as a potential partner. But I was involved in another potential relationship so it was just that. She was ok with being that type or friends.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one at that time. But later I did tell my friends. They were in awe. They were amazed and congratulated me. Boys will be boys.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was that I had earned a fuck buddy. Worst was that it wasn’t very successful the first try. The car isn’t the best place to do it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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