What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 65
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Have had sex with both men and women, mostly in threesomes.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25 or 26 not sure maybe more
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2 or 3
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had hooked up with this guy when my husband was in jail. At the time, my husband was just my boyfriend and the guy I hooked up with was his best friend. They are no longer friends. I will call him Bruce. He had blonde hair, brown eyes, a slim build with not much of a chest, and about 5’10” or so.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was working at a hospital when Bruce came into the office to pick up some records for his sister. When he saw me, he looked up and down my body, telling me I looked great. I couldn’t stop smiling and all I could think about was his perfect, huge cock. I felt myself getting wet and my nipples hard. After I handed him the records, he asked if I would be down to get a drink sometime. In the back of my mind, I was thinking of my husband but my mouth was already agreeing to his request. We agreed to meet around 5:30 at a bar that happened to be at a motel.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I met him at the bar and he had already ordered me a drink before I got there. He then asked if I wanted to go somewhere more secluded so we headed up to a room that he had gotten. As soon as we walked in the room, we started grabbing each other and kissing. We undressed each other hungrily, and I just stared at his giant cock standing up off his stomach. I grabbed it and starting licking and stroking it, having a hard time getting my lips over the pale, fat, meaty head of his cock. My pussy was so wet, I started moving my hips back and forth, wanting his cock in my mouth and cunt at the same time. He then laid me on the bed and started going down on me, sucking my pussy lips and licking between them. He told me to play with my nipples and it made me wetter hearing him command me. I was working on a huge orgasm when he stuck two fingers up my pussy and hit my G-spot. He pushed my legs wider, getting deeper, and I went crazy. Then he stood up and placed the tip of his cock right between my swollen lips, gave it a few swipes, and pushed in. He started thrusting harder and faster with each thrust, it was euphoric. He was getting close and he began to grab my hair, grunting and moaning. He pulled out and told me to turn around. I did and got on my knees as he let his load loose in my mouth until it ran out of the corners of my mouth. I licked his cock clean and we both laid back on the bed in exhaustion. It was about 7:30, so I told him I had to leave.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had a sore pussy, it kept reminding me of his huge cock.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The girls at work, they were excited and liked hearing about his cock.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The orgasms and his huge cock.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? not at all,
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have had casual sex off and on all my life. It’s more common now in society than ever before.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it gives people an outlet and a chance to tell their stories. I think people like writing about sex and hearing about their own experience’s, it turns them on.
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