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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Uganda
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Long layover
How long ago did this hookup happen? Six months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He had red hair and medium built pale skinned Irish man. He was from Ireland and look like what you expect an Irish man to look like. I had just met him about two hour before the hookup. We met at an airport bar waiting for our connecting flights. I though he was a good looking and nice guy. I was really happy to have someone to talk to durning my 18 hr layover.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We where chatting at the airport bar about where we are from, where we are going, been etc. While we sat and talked about all the normal airport talk some how we started talking about hookup we have had in the past. After some time he looked at me and said want to have sex in the airport bathroom? I said sure let me finish this beer and brush my teeth. So we hit up the airport kiosk to buy some condoms and went off to the family bathroom. As we where getting started a mother with a crying baby started knocking on the door so we had to take a pause. We went back out into the airport found a seat and started talking about what we wanted to do. His penis was uncircumcised and I had not had sex with a man before that was not circumcised. As we sat and talked I told him I thought it would look very different then circumcised penis but that I liked it. while we sat waiting for enough time to pass to go back to the bathroom I rubbed his penis and we made a plan on how we would fuck. Talk about what he would do to me started to make me wet.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went back to the bathroom before him and he came in a few minutes later. When he enter I lowered my pants he bent over the sink and fucked me doggy style. As he was sliding his penis in and out my vagina I started to fingering my clit. Just as I was starting to cum there is a knock on the door again. He quickly finished and we did the walk of shame out of the bathroom together and we did not see each other again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we went our different ways. The next day since I was flying back to American to see family for the first time in eight months I was not thinking about the hookup. My expectation with the person where none since I live in Uganda and him in Ireland. Now I feel like it was a great experience and a great hookup story.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some of my friends. The reacted like of course you would hookup with someone in the airport bathroom.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It check a couple of first sexual experience off for myself.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I did not get to finish.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Has not changed how I think about casual sex or how I view myself.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex role in my life has had a great impact. I have lived aboard for four year now. Since I continue to move countries roughly every six months it allows me to continue to enjoy sex without having to start a relationship that will just end in a short time. Since casual sex is largely more accepted in the expat community I don’t think I would like to see that changed. It might be nice if my community back in American understood casual sex more or how important it is when living aboard.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think its amazing and support continue to education on a sex postive society
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