by Mia

Gender: female
Age: 34
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Vienna
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Entrepreneur
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

The Love Hotel

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years?

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? A highly unusual hook up

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Ok, I met this guy in a bar a few months prior to our hook up. It was special because we instantly liked each other, you know, when you meet someone who makes you smile a little bit too much and you blush a little every other minute. He was the textbook womanizer and I flirted the hell out of it. But I had other engagements that evening and left drunk, knowing I would meet him again. He was handsome, very cheeky and extremely charming, the type of guy you can have but should never attempt to hold.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A few months later, same bar. I am there with a friend and 2 guys start hitting on us. It’s late, we’re on our 5th Old Fashioned and the conversation gets sexy. We get kicked out, head to the W├╝rschtelstand (those sausage joints on the streets in Vienna that save your drunken soul) and while we’re eating, I realize that it would be difficult to get out of this situation quickly with the boys on top of us and everything and decided to run away, leave them there standing. (yes, it’s weird but seemed very plausible) While running I decided that I was too drunk to just go to bed, and jogged to a club some friends were running at the time. I got in, he’s there, at the bar, alone. He looks up, my heart leaps with excitement, I walk up to him, he says “how amazing that you are out of all people are here now” grabs my head and kisses me. The kind of kiss that just works and makes your body shed all the right hormones.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Then that club also closed and we decided to go to the nearby market (they open at 5 am) to have a coffee. The sun was shining, the coffee was delicious and the guy kissed me until my entire body started shaking. Then he looked at me and said: “you know what would be absolutely fantastic now? Hotel Orient!” That Hotel is notorious in Vienna, you can only rent rooms by the hour and it’s all red velvet and fin de siecle frills. I had been there previously with a boyfriend who was not very good in bed and was given a voucher for this hotel for his birthday. Goodness, how boring. So the prospect of going there at 6 am with a amazingly hot guy who was cheeky enough to offer it was a “tick this off the list” kinda moment. We got there, had amazingly drunken sex pretty much all over the room, in the massive bath tub and and passed out exhausted until 3 hours later, time was up and we were asked to leave.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was very straight forward, sexy, smelled incredibly good and said exactly the right thing at the right time.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, definitely alcohol and very probably coke on his side.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I walked home, my make-up all smeared. Since I am not usually a one-night-stand kinda girl since they are usually too banal and don’t tickle the clit in my brain I wore my walk of shame with pride, thinking what a great coincidence it all was.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my girlfriends and they were like “yea girl!”

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely. We hit it off a few times after that but it as never the same, for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all. It’s the kind of hook up I will probably tell me daughter one day.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is always the story, the moment and how the other person makes you feel. And yes, it was a great experience, since we both took a free and spontaneous decision, like a “leap of faith” that we were both very eager to take.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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