What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Arkansas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 7
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was cubby, but cute. Shoulder length strawberry blond hair, perfect perky tits, stunning blue eyes. She posted an add on Craigslist stating that she wanted a group of guys to come to her hotel room and use her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She posted the ad the night before, and I noticed the ad the next morning. It was my day off, and I had just arrived home from taking my kids to school. I pulled up Craigslist and read her ad, asking for a group of guys. I sent her a message asking her if she had any luck last night, and she said “no”. I told her that I didn’t have a group of guys to bring with me, but if she wanted to fuck, I was free. We exchanged a few pics and she was asked me to meet her. I told her I was off that day, lived about 15 minutes from her and asked what time she wanted to meet. She said, “Right now.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was a maid at a local Days Inn, and they provided her a room. I arrived at about 9 am, knocked on her door, and she opened it wearing little booty shorts and a tank top. When I walked in, she sat on the bed and motioned for me to come to her. When I got to the bed, she pulled down my pants and went straight to sucking my dick. She was cock hungry and engulfed me, all the way down to my balls . . . no gag reflex. She worked me over for a while, then stopped to take off her clothes. I did the same, put on a condom and laid down on the bed. She crawled on top and slowly lowered herself on to me. She was super wet and really tight. Once I was completely inside her, she sat upright and leaned back. She started grinding her clit into my pelvis and I reached up and starting groping her tits. She did this for a little while, then suddenly fell forward, catching herself right before she landed on me and started humping me . . . slowly at first, but then picking up the pace. I could tell she wanted to cum and wasn’t going to let anything stop her . . . and I was happy to lay there until she did. She was moaning and grunting and really working up a sweat. All of a sudden, she slammed her ass down on me hard, and with my cock shoved deep insider her, she loudly grunted, “FUCK YEA!” and started convulsing, obviously having an intense orgasm.
I let her quiver on my cock for only a few seconds, before I took control and started fucking her, still underneath sweaty body. I was already close when she came, so it didn’t take me long. She laid still, still breathless from her orgasm, as I pounded her pussy with a steady rhythm. Each driving thrust resulting in a breathless moan of “oh fuck” quietly on my neck. With one last strong thrust, I pushed my cock deep inside her, filling the condom. We sat there, neither of us moving a muscle, except for my cock, throbbing with each shot of cum pumping out of me.
Felling my cock pumping inside her turned her on again and she slowly started riding me again. I was sensitive, but the condom was helping to keep it to a tolerable level. I was really enjoying her enthusiastic performance when the condom suddenly slipped off my cock, half of it still hanging out of her. We both laughed as she pulled it out. I had filled it with so much cum that it had become to slippery to stay on. That being the only condom I brought, signaled the end of our encounter. I cleaned up and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She sent me a message to tell me she enjoyed herself and asked me to come back sometime. Since I drove past her hotel every day, she told me to hit her up when I had the time to stop. We agreed that we would have a “cum and go” type of set up. Once a week or so, I would stop by the hotel (time of day would vary) and her door would be slightly cracked. I’d let myself in and she would be bent over the bed, naked ass towards the door. I would walk in, fuck her and leave. We wouldn’t talk, she wouldn’t even look up at me. She was basically just there to let me get off. She said she loved the “submissive slut” role and the thought that anyone could see her door cracked and walk in before I got there. This went on for months, until she took a different job and had to give up the room.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact that it resulted in a regular “cum and go” set up with her.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope, I love it!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People need to loose their hang ups and enjoy themselves.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this is great. It gives me the opportunity to talk about these experiences without catching hell about it.
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