by Rememberingatime

Gender: Male
Age: 44
Race/ethnicity: American
Current location: Texas
Highest education received: High school diploma
Occupation: Sales Manager
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Can’t remember
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

The Mask

How long ago did this hookup happen? 17 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One Night Stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Spoke to her on the phone for about a year prior to our hook up. I had never met her in person as she was my bosses admin. Sec. Guys in the office had talked and said she was quite stunning in person. I did not know her too well other than she was married and not happy in her situation. After the hook up we worked great together.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I spoke to her and on the phone you could tell she was having a rough day. So I decided I would send her some flowers. (Yellow roses) with a note saying something witty and dumb. She called me later that afternoon thanking me and we just started talking. Well one thing led to another and we started to plan our hook up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had discussed that we had never seen each other and we had an opportunity to be a little Risqué. We planned on meeting for the first time in a hotel room with masks on that covered our eyes. We would have sex for the first time and not take off the masks. So the day came and she was waiting in the hotel for me and left a key at the desk. She also let me know what the lay out of the room was and that my mask was in the bathroom on the sink. I arrived, headed for the front desk, grabbed the key went to the room and put on my mask. I walked to the bed and we started to speak to each other and she let me know that she was wearing some silk lingerie. We started kissing and rubbing and touching. You can tell we both were extremely excited and our masks stayed on. We had sex, and we would stop, slow down, and just make out and touch each other. I was trying to last as long as I could. I enjoyed her taste, her smell, and her sounds. Finally she reached her peak and I could not take it anymore. I had to have her and be inside her to completion.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Since we both had orgasms we pulled the masks off and just recouped our composure. We had sex the rest of the day and evening before heading out for a quick bite. We came back to the room and had as much sex as we could before we dozed off. I had to be at work early the next morning so she woke me up for morning sex and we parted ways.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms all night, she bought a box

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to experience the not knowing what she looked like and also know what she was like in bed.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We spoke at work like normal, we became closer at work almost like friends but we never hung again. I still speak to her on occasion today but not anything sexual.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This hook up made me realize that I can still be casual acquaintances with woman I hook up with. That it does not have to be an affair and have to last a long time. The memory of this hook up is fun to think about every once and a while.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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