What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Northern California
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? unemployed
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
The mom i worked with
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? she was this light skin black mother who was about 5 feet 5 inches. She was pretty attractive with wavy black hair and tattoos on her arm, tits and below her waistline above her vagina. She had really large breasts, probably DD and a really large ass. We met at work in Sonoma when I worked with special needs adults. She was one of my co-workers at the time and we would casually flirt and talk for a long time while we worked at the same place. Everyone at our job was hooking up kind of because most of us were in our 20’s so we would hang out and drink sometimes. Additionally I worked with the guys I lived with so it was convenient for getting people to hang out. She and I would talk a lot and one of the things we talked about was her 4 year old son that she has. She was 24 at the time and I was 19, so she was really sexy to me. Eventually i asked if she wanted to hang out. I was extremely attracted to her and really wanted to do something, so I was stoked to get to hang out.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went out to dinner, then went back to my house with some of my roommates and college friends to drink and play BP (Beer Pong). We were BP partners and running the table so we were stoked. She would shoot her ball with her butt pressed on my groin so I knew she was slightly interested. After some roommates went upstairs to smoke and play FIFA, we were talking for a bit when she suddenly leaned in and started making out with me. She stuck her tongue into my mouth and started feeling down my body to my dick, and I grabbed her huge ass and started massaging it while continuing to make out. I stopped because I felt like we were being watched, and I turned around to see my roommates spying on us from the staircase (there are rails you can look through from the stairs to the dining room. After that we went upstairs to my room and closed the door.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into my room and immediately started making out again before we even made it too the bed. I led her to the bed and sat down to have her sit on my lap and make out with me (I like giving power). She pushed me down onto the bed and took of my pants and I took off hers after she stripped her shirt and bra. She started sucking on my dick to get it really hard, then put the condom on for me. She was in cowgirl putting my dick into her vagina when she let out a soft moan as it went in. She started riding me up and down with me thrusting until I took her and flipped her into doggy style. I would grab her ass and thrust really hard while she clawed at my wall moaning. I feel like she came when she lost her breath and her vagina clenched, as she rolled around and clawed down my wall really hard. I took her and hung her off my bed and continued fucking her immediately after she came and fucked her that way and then went back to cowgirl to let her fuck at her pace. She started moving really slow and then came again and started shaking while losing her breath. I leaned up and hugged her and started fucking her again while sucking on her neck right after she came, making her moan a lot louder. She came again really hard and started licking my ear and whispered “hold on…I need to catch my breath”. While I rested a little bit I noticed we were both sweating a lot, we fucked for about 2 hours. She had this cool tattoo right above her vagina that I commented on, and she laughed with a very exhausted laugh. I asked if we could continue and she said sure, so we started fucking again in the cowgirl. I flipped her into missionary and started thrusting into her faster while she started moaning even louder. As she came she tried to grab my bedside table and knocked my lamp onto the ground. She came again after fucking in the cowgirl again before we decided to stop.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went to bed naked and drunk. I woke up in the morning to her facing in the same direction as me and I was big spoon, so I grabbed her and pressed my dick against her ass. We napped for a bit until the light outside was too bright through my blinds and then we both got up. She put on her clothes and went with me outside to her car to leave. I said I would talk to her later and she said alright “alright I’ll see you at work”. We hugged and she got into her car and left.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? my roommates, they tried to record the sound of us fucking in my room from downstairs.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to have sex with a hot mom that I worked with.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was drunk and couldn’t cum
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We only fucked once, afterwards we went back to being co-workers
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I like and appreciate casual sex, I don’t equate sex to love necessarily.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? this is awesome
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