What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Most Selfish Orgasm With My Ex
How long ago did this hookup happen? Summer after high school 9 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Fuck buddies
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? (Long story, better skip it if you want to know the story) I met her in elementary and I had this thing for her. She rejected me after I told her about it. Then we went to different high school and somehow I managed to talk to her again. We started dating when we were 14 I think. We had sex for the first time with each other, I was 15. I would sneak in her house right after her single parent mom left the house and we would fuck from 8 to 3 pm, sex, sleep, sex, sex, then sex again used so many condoms. Then broke up later because there was this amazing girl in my sport’s team.
She has this innocent look but man… She was always ready for some actions. She was horny all the time.
Anyway, I liked the size of her boobs they looked big on that small body and they were firm. She had an ass more than most Asian girls (yes, she is Asian) long hair, not dark skin nor light. Asian face but her eyes weren’t like those small Chinese eyes.
So… After we broke up for a year or two… We started to talk to each other again and we talked about sex…She forgave me because I left her for that other girl and I was trying to get to her knowing that she was this horny girl and finally convinced her to come to my house… Then we started to have sex… Again and again… I used her body and she liked it she was kind of submissive. Whenever I told her to suck my dick she would go down on me. She did everything I wanted. Whenever I told her to turn, to bend down, to lay on her belly, to be fucked by the window, to sit on the table and she would listen every single time. Soon we were out of condoms and that is how my most selfish orgasm story started…
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I was 18, I asked her… This sex craving submissive ex.. to come to my house to chill but I know deep in her mind she knew as much as I did that this day again was going to turn into another day of lust and pleasure.
We were still out of condoms and I did not buy because I was too lazy…
It was the afternoon, she came to my house I don’t remember what we were doing. I just remember telling her to go to my room because I started feeling horny and my dick was hard. At first, she said: “why we don’t have condoms”. She was not on the pills either. I just grabbed her wrist and took her to my room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Then, I pushed her against the wall beside the door. She did not offer much resistance so I turned her to face the wall. I had her ass against me. It did not take much time I opened her jeans and slid them down to her ankle. I lowered my pants and started grinding my cock between her thighs, sliding her already wet pussy. I was massaging her clitoris while pleasuring myself using her wet pussy. My dick was sliding vigorously and quickly sometimes I would enter her walls just a little bit making it look like accidents. And she would let out a little sound of pleasure… She would turn just a bit looking at me and saying… “You almost went inside” sounding so lewd, almost as if she did not care anymore.
I knew that she was so horny and then… She said the one thing that triggered me. She said: “why are we doing this, we won’t have full sex”.
The first thing that came to my mind was…: “Well since we can’t have sex… Might as well one of us have the fun”.
I took out my dick between her slippery thighs and I went for her backdoor.
She did not refuse… she did not scream.. I put my tip inside slowly pushing it and It was so tight. I tried to push further but it was too dry.. so I took it out and using her wet pussy again I made my dick more slippery. I went for her asshole once again… This time it went inside a little bit further.. and further.. I pushed my dick inside her ass while I was fingering her pussy… I guess she had a mix of pain and pleasure. I could feel my dick sliding in her ass through the wall in her wet pussy with my fingers. The feeling to dominate over someone was crazy. The tightness of her asshole around my dick was incredible. It was not love or simple sex. I felt like she was like a sex slave. I did not last long, I wanted to cum inside her ass but that would me make one crazy bastard since she told me not to… I was an ass but that would be way too much.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Tbh I did not feel bad at first I do feel a bit sorry for her and her ass but when I think about it, it still makes me horny as hell.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody, just all the readers here.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? First anal, dominance, best memory
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I don’t know if she wanted to be fuck in the ass she was barely 18.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I set the bar high for myself, I won’t have another chance to have such power over someone.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I still think about her sometimes and would love to ravage her body again and her ass to show dominance since she became a little bitchy. I know because she still hangs with a friend of mine.
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