What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Michigan
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Professor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 Year
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Affair
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? C is a 54 yo very fit and handsome man. I meet him at a Starbucks. I wanted him so badly!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At the Starbucks where we meet. My hubbie was out of town and I couldn’t stop thinking about C and all the things I wanted him to do to me! We both did.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to his house. I immediately sucked his cock to FULL strength. Cs is soooo big and thick. He fucked my mouth, pussy, ass, mouth, pussy, tits, pussy and then came inside me! It made me feel so slutty but in a good way. C treated me like a real slut. Calling me names, making me gag on his cock and filling me up with his cum!!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We slept. The next morning he fucked my ass and I begged him to cum in my mouth. I want to leave my hubbie and move in with C but not sure that can happen. I have very strong feelings for C. Very!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my BFF. She has been cheating on her hubbie too.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being Cs little cum slut! Letting him fuck me every which way possible!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Only that I can’t always get fucked by him because my hubbie is home sometimes.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes! I love being Cs little cum slut! I don’t like sex with my hubbie.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? A big cock that cums a lot is a wonderful thing. I love being dominated by a big cock.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People need to relax.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great!
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