Current location: Florida USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
@ The Party: Cake Time Meanwhile At The Stable
How long ago did this hookup happen? Summer 2014
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The usual cowboy i have talked about before. 5’7″ amazing smile, 17 years older than me. Loves horses too much
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We both got invited to the annual party at the ranch.(again the ranch) and it was full of our family. So them knowing a little about our past together, we both decide not to be close to one another. But after a while there just looking at people dance and eat i tell him to meet me at the other side of some stables where the bathrooms are at. He immediately agrees and arrives there. We say hi to one another and knowing what is going to happen afterwards he says “let me go to the bathroom, i’ll be right back. Wait here.” Just then a cousin with other kids arrive there and start chatting. He comes out of the bathroom and is surprise. I smile and he says ” see you around” and walks away. Shortly afterwards i walk away and go into my cousin’s house. He tells me “im in the corral behing the house, take the secret passway when no one is inside the house.” So i do the exact same thing he told me. I was in heels so it was hard to walk in a muddy full of plants dark passway. But once i felt his hand grab mine i felt safe. He pulled me towards A stable
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once inside the stable he smiled and started kissing me. He placed his hands on my waist and moved them to my butt and grabbed it hard. Just then i heard they were singing happy birthday at the party. Lol we missed it. He had a ball cap on, i took it off his head and placed it backwards on mine. I whisper to him ” this is crazy” ” i know right” he whispers back. We kept on kissing and he was smiling and happy. I was happy too. I went down on him for a bit which i know he enjoys then we kissed again he unbuttoned my jeans and touches me then i turn facing the wooden wall, pulls my pants down and he penetrates. It felt awesome since he has a big cock. He kisses my neck and ear then we hit it off fast since we cannot be seen by someone. He says “you are super wet” i tell him “well you are super huge” he laughs the way i love to hear him laugh. I hear the party people are about to cut the cake. Which im a big fan of, but oh well we was too busy. After going at it so fast me reaching an orgasm , he says “where do i-” i interrupt him and say “wherever. I don’t mind” he just pulled it out of my vagina and his sperm went blasting between my legs. I felt a bit land on my thigh. I pulled my pants up then licked his penis clean. “Im sorry if any landed on you” we both laughed. We kissed a bit more i placed his ball cap back on his head and we exchanged a few other words.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes i did once. He did once too.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use protection. He has his reason. I trust him. He trusts me.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We enjoy one another. We love sex together.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were at a party so he did have a few beers. I had none i do not drink. No drugs we are against that.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards he held my hand because of the muddy corral. He was going to go back to the party through the stables and i was going to go inside the house to the bathroom then walk around the other side. We held hands until we couldn’t anymore. He said “take care” just our fingers touching ” you too” i said back to him. We finally let go and walked away. I wasn’t going to look back at him because i knew that meant i cared but i let my emotions take control and i turned. I noticed him looking back at me too and we just smiled and kept walking. When I arrived at the party i asked for a piece of cake. I enjoyed the sweet taste and smiled because somewhere on the other side from where i was at was a happy cowboy that night.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody knows. Nobody needs to know.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Just thinking about Regrets brings me down. So no regret it was amazing! 😉
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? BEST: the way everything happened. The feelings, emotions, the place, the time, him smilling all the time. Summer in FL, The smell of horse poop lol farms/ ranches are magical places. WORST: Not being able to do it more often.
My experiences with him have taught me so much about sex. He taught me that sex is not a one person thing. Sometimes we just want to feel good, but its beyond you feeling good. It is about making the other person feel good. That sex is a 2 person thing. How to be more passionate and considerate. Truly he makes me feel good about myself, we live different lifestyles but we do share many things in common. that makes us great friends.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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