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Gender: Female
Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup: Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I originally met him through friends when I was in high school, at a friends party. I had a boyfriend at the time so it wasn’t anything major. Years go by and I would occasionally see him out at a particular bar that was in our area. Never spoke though.
Few years go by again and randomly see him on social media… So I decide to follow. He initiated conversation and knew exactly who I was (he pretended he didn’t know at first but I knew he did… He was a game player like that).
At the time however, I had another boyfriend. We spoke quite often and he asked to take me out. I declined being that I was taken… However, in a week my bf was due to fly overseas on a holiday. I suggested that we could catch up when he leaves (naughty I know). However only a couple nights later we went to the cinema, as I was alone that night. Nothing happened but we talked a lot and shared a connection. I knew a bit about him only through random conversations people would have.. He was extremely funny but also known to be VERY well endowed.. So I was intrigued haha!!
I go out on the town the night my bf leaves, and surprisingly I bump into him outside a bar. I quickly said hey and ran off as we were meeting friends. I saw him at the club I was at and long story short we went home together…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We shared silly dance moves and suggestive touches on the dance floor before making our way back to my friends house… There was no planning involved, however I think he purposely went out that night in the hope he would catch up with me, as he knew where I was heading.
He instigated it… However I put him in the position to make him feel comfortable with that.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went back to the house and just started hooking up on the bed. It was quite heated and passionate.. Lots of grabbing, biting each other’s lips… Prolonged eye contact as we forcefully pull each others body’s closer. He was very take charge and dominant in the bedroom which I was extremely pleased with! As well as this he likes to whisper dirty talk in my ear and say how much he wants me etc which just made me putty in his hands… He started fingering me quite forcefully… I was like a rag doll as he tossed me around and brought me to several orgasms.
It was like I made him lose control and it made the sex unbelievable. As I reached down his pants I could see he was extremely well endowed and I worried for a second it wouldn’t fit!! Upon teasing him with my mouth slowly.. He couldn’t take it and he grabbed me and started to go inside.
Among the teasing, biting, slapping, dirty talk and hair pulling I can safely say that was the best sex I ever had.
He said the same thing.
He finished inside me and then he lay next to me while we both pant, covered in sweat and half laying on each other!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Unfortunately (and stupidly) being so uninhibited we didn’t use anything or talk of anything. The next morning he got me the morning after pill.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I suppose after chatting for a period of time, there was a lot of playful banter and cheekiness the whole time which lead to a lot of sexual tension! We were both very attracted to each other.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were both drunk the night we hooked up.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt satisfied after the hookup haha! And we continued to have this relationship for two months while my bf was away (however me and my bf had agreed on a break).
Although we hooked up every time we saw each other, we did go out a few times for dinner etc, go shopping, he’d bring me lunch at work. He’d even write cute notes for me in the morning. Long story short I ended it officially with my bf in the hope we could continue… Things got weird and we stopped talking.
We didn’t communicate for years until we bumped into each other and he mentioned how much he enjoyed our affair and hasn’t had anyone measure up.. Although I agreed, I said we can’t do it again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? 2 of my best friends. I couldn’t risk it being seeped out.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes definitely

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. Taught me a lot about what I enjoy in bed, and what I now expect. It was amazing.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was new experiences and very satisfying sex.
Worst thing was the emotional complications.. Feelings etc.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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