What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Nurse
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open for anything
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was about 6″ long dreadlocks skinny but sexy. I saw him in a club and was soo infatuated i had to speak to him so i followed him outside and started up a conversation.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We talked outside the club for 20 minutes then he said he was cold so we should go to his car. I quickly agreeded and told my friends ill call them later then followed him. We sat in his car and talked about life and music and everything inbetween. You could feel the sexual tension between us. He leaned in and kissed me once then i took control.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At first we sat in the front seats kissing and feeling each others bodies he then told me to get in the back seat and he pulled my pants off and told me to sit on his huge dick. He wouldnt let me move he just wanted me to sit there. The moment was so intense i was almost cumming. He then pulled me up off him and started eating me out until i squirted all over him. Then he had me sit on him and ride him until he came inside me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We exchanged numbers and met up the next night for more mind blowing sex. We have been seeing each other on and off for the past year. I still get giddy whenever i see him and the sex is always as mind blowing as the first time. I love him and he loves me but in a different sort of way we are both dating different people but still see each other every other week. Maybe one day we will be a couple but at the moment we are both happy with what we got going on.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Its no ones business but my own
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We had a really deep connection had great vibes between us.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes he made me feel so much more confident in myself and my body. He made me realise casual sex is ok.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Best sex ive ever had
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am much more open to casual sex after that experience. I think casual sex in general is not as frowned upon as it once was.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think its great.
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