by El Gonzo
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? a little kink/fetish
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 9
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1999
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Her name was Sharon. Didn’t get a last name. I was at home early from work that particular hot day. Sharon was apparently working as a volunteer, going door to door with a questionnaire. She was about 5 foot 6, well built with a nice ‘mommy’ body. blonde. green eyed and very attractive. She came to my house while I was doing some work indoors.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was pretty warm outside when I heard a knock at the door. When I answered, there was this very nice looking lady. She said her name was Sharon, and she was doing some volunteer work for some group, and was wondering if I might answer some questions about the neighborhood. I invited her inside, and asked if she wanted to sit and offered her a drink. She said water was okay, but I said I was getting a beer. Water was okay, she said. As she sat and asked me questions, I kept envisioning a nice little tryst. As she kept asking, I kept asking her if she’d like something cooler and more alcoholic. When the magic word margarita came up, she stopped and said why not. She followed me to the kitchen where I started making her a margarita. We went back to my living room, and talked about anything besides her work. Sharon was loosening up a bit, so I made her another margarita.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Then it started getting more interesting. About midway through her second margarita, Sharon moved over to the sofa where I was and began asking me some questions. like was I a discreet person who could keep a secret. Sure, I said and she proceeded to tell me about her unhappy marriage. Like the nice guy I am, I listened to her every word, and then got close enough to give her a kiss, which surprised her. Want another, I asked. Without hesitating, we locked lips and started groping each other. Sharon’s tits felt great as I fondled them. Nice size. All she did was sigh with each touch. Then the clothes started coming off. Before I knew it we were both naked. I lay her down, opened her legs and started nibbling on her thighs until reaching her wet pussy. And it was wet! She tasted so good! I dug my tongue into Sharon’s moist pussy, and enjoyed. All I could hear was her moans with an occasional surprise sounding squeal. After about 15 minutes of eating her, I sat down on the sofa while she got on her knees and started giving me some great head. Sharon needed some good fucking, and we were ready. I pulled her up on my sofa, opened her legs and slid my cock into her. She almost resisted, but gave in. Knowing she probably had to go back to her job, we fucked fast and hard. Not much time for trying out many positions, so we just fucked missionary for the time being. We fucked about 20 minutes before we both came. Then Sharon got up, went to the bathroom, cleaned up, got dressed and tells me it was the best afternoon she had in a while. And promised she would come back with more time the next time. Which she did, by the way.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great, and I guess so did she. We kept in touch, and were fuck buddies when her husband was off playing golf.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was the spontaneity of it all.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope, It just shows that people, given the right situation, will find a way to fuck.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? No thoughts at all.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s an interesting site.
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