by silky

Gender: Male

Age: 62
Race/ethnicity: Black
Location: Madison
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Attorney-writer
Religious affiliation: Baptist
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Ring’s the Thing

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A slim blonde haired white vixen with pouty lips and dramatic flair. Never had seen her before at the corner bar.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She was being flirty with several guys at the bar and came over to where I sat, then pulled me up to her face, then kissed me full on the lips. Since other guys were also lining up at the chance to bed this wildcat, I knew I had better plan accordingly and stay one step ahead. I got what she wanted and left the bar with her – much to the dismay of the other would-be-romeos.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was all that and more – we did oral and vaginal – on and off the bed. She was shaved and tattooed down under and had a piercing where her maidenhead used to be. It definitely added sizzle to the steak. When she mentioned that her boyfriend paid for the room and that his hummer was parked outside I knew it was time to hat up. She had her arms wrapped around my leg as I exited the room.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nada

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Lust, passion, availability, bragging rights, stupidity, thrill of the chase.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She gave me her phone number; I called her once or twice, but she lived in Kansas City. I owed her that much after the way she rocked and rolled.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of the guys at the bar who were green with envy and saw us leave.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual all the way – meant to be.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Only insofar as her boyfriend may have come home and busted us and raised holy hell in my favorite hotel.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is the wonderful reaffirmation that all women have different DNA – variety, hallowed be thy name. Worst thing was having to leave her wanting more because of fear of the hummer dude returning.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positiveAll things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Proves once again that when a woman decides it’s on, it’s on.

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