Location: DC suburbs
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Dating not-exclusively at the time
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was the friend of a colleague of mine, who was throwing a Fourth of July party, the purpose of which was an excuse to get drunk. He was quite attractive, and didn’t actually have an accent but spoke perfect Russian. He was muscular (which was hot, because he could lift me up) and ruddy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began sitting downstairs, which is where we went after everyone else went to bed. I announced that I was just going to stay up all night, since I had to work the next morning and it was already 4am. He asked me how I intended to spend those two hours. I said I didn’t know and asked if he had any suggestions, at which point he kissed me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He fucked me on a bunch of sofa cushions on the floor of this mutual friend’s bathroom while everyone, including the Russian grandmother, was asleep. It was the best sex I’ve ever had, mostly because he had this weird way of continuously making me want more. It was nice because we didn’t even exchange numbers – it was clearly just a hook-up for both of us.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom when I replied “no” to his question as to whether I was on birth control.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It felt good. Also, that boy that I’m NOW dating happily was at that time not someone I was exclusive with, and it was nice to feel a little bit of power over him by making him jealous.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Oh god, we had both been drinking pretty heavily all night but were fairly sober by the time we fucked.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to sleep on the couch and he went to sleep somewhere else. I left the next morning before he woke up, and we haven’t spoken since. I don’t think we said much after the whole encounter. He laid down with me for a few minutes on that couch, but it was hot and crowded so he moved.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Well, we both told that mutual friend, who thought the whole thing was hilarious, mostly because we were pretty classless and also this is so utterly typical for both of us, personality-wise. No one seemed to mind. The Russian grandmother slept through it and I didn’t even tell the current boyfriend.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Completely consensual. In fact, we were hooking up and he started kissing the edges of my underwear, at which point I sort’ve gasped in pleasure. He said “was that a yes?” and when I agreed, we finally fucked.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think the best was that it was truly no-strings attached and no one felt awkward afterward. The worst was that it wasn’t very…comfortable. Did I mention this occurred on top of a bunch of couch cushions on a bathroom floor?
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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