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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? New Zealand
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Health Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Seven
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Last wek

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner is a petite 48 year old married woman, long hair, slim,firm small breasts, great derrière and good legs. Shaved pubic region. Average looks glasses smokes so it shows. Met on the website c-date. Was invited to contact her through a txt type app. She is very clear about her sexuality and very direct about what she wants. Has a very high sex drive and seeks multiple partners to meet this need. We sexed for several weeks, she sent explicit photos and video. Video sexed (not very satisfying) agreed to meet, she arranged the room and we met for the afternoon. I like this woman I find her direct, this is who I am personality very refreshing. She bluntly states she likes sex and is seeking fuck buddies who can meet this need and keep up with her, that as she puts it I don’t break them. She is funny and engaging as well as a little sad and a bit broken emotionally. In terms of sex she is pretty much insatiable.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? See above. On line then in person. I made the initial contact but she replied and it went from there. Planning was involved as we live in different cities and it had to be worked into one of my business trips.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We have met twice using a motel that offers “day rates” She likes to dress up in sexy costumes. She/we like to kiss, all sloppy tongue touching and licking, engaged in oral, vaginal and anal, she is multi-orgasmic and squirts. She likes a combination of oral clitoral and fingering both vaginal and anal. Penetrative vaginal sex in a variety of positions. As noted she is multi-orgasmic and knows what position and angle to achieve this. She will orgasm and squirt for as long as you can keep it going. She has really strong pelvic muscles so it very obvious when her orgasms occur. The second time we met was four hours nearly non stop. She likes to play with a vibrator and dildos as well as being blindfolded and gentle bondage. Very vocal during orgasm.
She is delightful and I like her. She likes to be held cuddled during rest periods. We talk about sex stroke each other’s egos about how good we are, general topics as well as our families children who else she is meeting to play with. I think we get on quite well and I think that she likes that I don’t judge her for having multiple partners.
I do worry about STDs but not pregnancy as we both have been sterilized.
She is an unbelievably good lover.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After ther hook up I went home. I feel ok, do I feel guilty for cheating on my wife? Yes some guilt but also a degree of anger at her for creating the environment that led to Making the conscious choice to seek sex out side of marriage. I have to examine my feelings about that some more.
We will meet up again when the opportunity arises. We txt multiple times a day. I still like her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Really Really Really good sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The fact that I am cheating on my partner

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Plan to hook up with this person again

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I do it have any problems with casual sex if it is mutually consensual.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting

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