Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Inexistent
How religious are you? Not at all
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Somewhat Deserted Back of a Building that Gave Me an Orgasm
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s about 20 centimeters taller than me. Blond, medium length hair, green eyes and he was still summer tanned. We had never hooked up before. We actually hadn’t met before the first time we fucked. Since I barely knew him, all I could think before was “damn he’s hot I wanna do him”.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? First day of classes in college (at least for me it was, this was his third incursion in a different area of study), around 9 and something we, as a class, decided to gather for introductions and the like, our class is fairly small and we would see each other every day, when I saw him. I have to admit I looked at him and felt hot all over. Around 11 am we were already drinking a beer and talking and he looked interested so I sort of mentioned he looked hot. He smiled. For some reason we separated for a while, went to class and around 6 pm we were outside our classroom talking really close and there was some intense flirting going on. Our whole class went to drink some beers sitting in the grass getting to know each other and all. To be completely honest, I don’t know how but we ended up sitting together and I was almost whispering to his ear everything I said. And that’s how we stood up and started wandering around until we found a somewhat hidden spot at the back of a building.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So we kissed. A lot. Somehow my hands were in his pants and I was all about going down but he kinda stopped me and started masturbating me. I still got into his pants and gave him a blowjob, he sort of deserved it when he stopped me from going down so we could both enjoy it. At some point I turned around and he penetrated me against the cold walls of the chemistry building.
It wasn’t long but it was so intense -and honestly we were out in the open and anyone could’ve walked on us. And yes, there was an orgasm and very shaky legs afterwards and damn.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was hot. I wanted him. Period.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes. Enough beer to take away your inhibitions but not enough to feel dizzy or drunk.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards, we kissed a lot, we tucked ourselves in and walked out of the place. We sort of dated for like a month? Maybe less?
Now I’m slightly disappointed we didn’t make it a more permanent thing. I mean, he’s smart and handsome and he’s a nice guy but it just wasn’t going to work out between us. We’re cool now. I mean, he’s my classmate so there’s no hard feelings in the way (I think).
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My circle of friends. They congratulated me. One of them actually said “atta girl”
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it was consensual for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? BEST: it allowed me to get closer to the guy and to get to know him. Also he’s the hottest guy in our class and I felt really proud of myself ok.
WORST: the wall was cold but then I didn’t really think much of it?
And the only thing that’s changed about how I think of casual sex is just not against a cold wall.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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