What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Raleigh
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over ten
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
The Sunday School Teacher
How long ago did this hookup happen? This spring
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I let her on hinge, the first girl I ever met on there. We had a few conversations and seemed to get along. Her kids were younger than mine, and she mentioned she was a Sunday school teacher. I’m not religious, so I didn’t mention anything about it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met for lunch one Sunday afternoon she didn’t have her kids and went bowling and shot pool. 2 or 3 days later I invited her over to my house for dinner. She was reluctant but agreed.
We are some meals that I had cooked (women always seem to be impressed by that) and went into the living room. I sat down beside her on the couch and kissed her. We made out for a few minutes and I stood up, took her hand, and said “come on.”
She looked alarmed. “We’re not going to do it,” she declared.
I pulled her hand gently. “I know. Come on.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She followed me to the bedroom and we lay down on the bed. We continued making out and I began to touch her all over. She moaned and grabbed my penis through my jeans and started stroking it. When I was sure she was ready, I slid her pants down and went down on her. I licked her up and down slowly before focusing on her clitoris. She kicked her pants off the rest of the way and wrapped her legs around my shoulders. “You are so good at this…”
I had only been going down on her for 3 or 4 minutes when she moaned “fuck me.”
I stood up, grabbed a condom out of the box in the nightstand, undressed and rolled it on.
“Wow, you’ve got everything handled,” she observed. “You’re not a player, are you?”
“Of course not.” I lay on top of her and started kissing her again. She spread her legs and I entered, slowly, because I’m kind of thick and I didn’t want to hurt her. Also, I figured it had probably been a while since she’d had sex.
We did it for a while, first in missionary, then I rolled over onto my back and said “get on.”
She straddled me and guided me inside her. “God…” she moaned. “I can’t believe we’re doing this.” I’m used to this; all girls say it, even when it’s not true. We did it in this position for a while. Finally I could tell I was about to come, so I grabbed her ass with both hands and thrust into her, hard, as I came into the condom.
When I finished, I kissed her, rolled her off me, and pulled off the condom and threw it away. Then I put my arms around her and held her again. “You must do this a lot,” she remarked.
“On occasion.” I kissed her forehead and we held each other.
We got up and got dressed, and walked out into the rec room. “Let’s play pool,” I suggested.
“Sure,” she agreed. “Is this what you always do after you have sex?”
I shrugged and started racking the balls. We played a couple of games, and I started to get horny again. She hadn’t given me a blowjob, and I wanted her to. I grabbed the pool cue from her hand and kissed her. We stood there and kissed a little, and I took her hand and guided it to the front of my jeans. “Round two?” she inquired with a devilish grin.
“Sure, if you’re up for it.”
She kissed me again and slid down to her knees. She unbuckled my belt, unbuttoned my fly, and slid down my pants and boxers. I was already hard. “Wow,” she whispered and took me in her mouth. She wrapped her fingers around me and stroked as she sucked me off.
We moved back to the bedroom, and I pulled my clothes off and sat on the bed in front of her. She took the hint and got down on her knees again, black-tipped fingers wrapped around my dick, looking up at me with her light brown eyes.
“Want to do it again?” I asked after a few minutes.
She did, so I grabbed another condom and we got on the bed again. I slid into her. Her eyes were wide. “God,” she gasped. “You feel so good.” Her eyes rolled back in her head as I pounded her again.
It didn’t take me long to come again, and after I did we got dressed. She said she had to go home, so I kissed her goodbye and she left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went out again the next week, and had sex again, this time at her house, but she kept talking about how she thought we had moved too fast. After we did it that night we were sitting on her couch and she seemed upset that we shouldn’t be having sex and all that. So I got dressed and went home. She sent a text later and apologized and said she wasn’t ready for a relationship. I told her that was fine and we never hung out again. The sex was good but I had other options, and I didn’t want her to feel guilty. I don’t give a shit about religion, but it’s important to some people and I respect that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a couple of my friends I banged a Sunday school teacher and we all had a laugh about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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