by Dr. Tom

Gender: Male
Age: 33
Race/ethnicity: Mixed but look White
Current location: LA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Doctor
Relationship status: Divorced/Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

The Tattooed Nurse

How long ago did this hookup happen? A Week

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends With Benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I first met Ana (Not her real name) more than eight years ago.  She is an attractive mixed race woman with brown hair and nice c cup breasts.  She is fit but still a little curvy which I like.  She also is covered in tattoos, a rose on the left side of her chest and a cross with skulls that takes up most of her back just to name a few.  Ana is also a few years younger than me.  We both work at the same hospital, she started there at around the same time as I got out of medical school.  When we first met I liked her but wasn’t really attracted to her as I was still married at the time and we were always friendly even though she is not well liked around the hospital (Ana can be a bit abrasive).  I would say after eight years of working together I know her pretty well.  First time we hooked up was about five years ago shortly after my divorce and we have hooked up about half a dozen times overall when we were between relationships since.  We have never spent very long together, a week or two here or there and the longest was about a month.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? First I wanted to share that doctors hooking up with nurses is cliché for a reason.  With the hours I work it’s hard to impossible to meet someone outside of the hospital.  My last two girlfriends were both nurses and the one before them was a barista at the coffee shop across the street.  My ex-wife is a fellow doctor, I met her in college.
I have worked at the same hospital since I got out of medical school and Ana has always been in my orbit (my ex-wife moved on a few years ago).  We hadn’t hooked up for a little over a year, I had girlfriend for most of that time and she had been dating another woman as well.
We were working closely one day and brushed up against each other and Ana kissed me.  We started to make out but Ana stopped me, and said not here.  She said she would come by my place after shift.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Ana knocked on my door.  She took her shirt and bra off right away and we made out on the couch without our shirts on for a while.  I liked the feeling of her breasts against my chest.  I carried her to the bedroom, threw her on the bed and pulled her pants off and penetrated her.  I continued to kiss her as I rode her in missionary until I came.
We chatted for a bit in-between.  She was a little heavier than the last time and I told her I liked her curves more and asked about her newest tattoo.  We talked about some other things too.  Finally Ana began to suck on me and got me good and hard and used her mouth to put the condom on and then mounted me.  She rode me until we both came.  We fell asleep soon after as it was pretty late at this point and we were tired.
We went one more time in the morning.  Ana had just gotten out of the shower and I pushed her against the wall and initially started to fuck her while we were both standing up.  It’s not as practical as you might think and I ended up bending her over the bed to finish.  We had breakfast, Ana told me she had seen this coming and said with us both single again it was due to happen.  She gave me a kiss goodbye and then left.  The sex was great, as usual.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did all three times, Ana did just the second and third time

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? First time I finished inside her which was a little foolish, second and third time we used condoms.  We both however recently tested clean.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny and so was Ana

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Honestly not at all.  Ana comes from a family background of various addicts and doesn’t drink or do drugs at all.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Ana and I have hooked up two other times since at my place, and once at work.  She stayed over the one time which is a bit of a change.  She says she likes being with me and she likes who she is when she is with me.  We have discussed the possibility of trying to date but I am not sure how I feel about that.  She has some issues and her personality does leave a bit to be desired but the sex is great and we both like each other.  I think I may give dating Ana a chance.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told one of the other nurses who I have also known for years who always seems to know after we hook up.  Her reaction was it that time of year again already?

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Only part is that Ana seems like she might want a relationship this time and I am not sure about that and I am still getting over my last breakup a bit.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sex was great and it had been a while for me as well.  Worst part is that I am not sure about a relationship with Ana.  Don’t think this changed anything about how I view casual sex or sexuality, but I did feel a lot better about myself after Ana and I hooked up and a bit more relaxed since I am having sex regularly again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’ll try and post a few more when I get a chance, I only just found this website the other day.  I think my experiences would make a good addition here.

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