Race/ethnicity: White British
Current location: London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Investment Banker
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 250
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 9 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? K lived on the floor above me during my first year at university. She was petite and pale-skinned, with short, dark brown hair. I didn’t know her very well, but did know she had a reputation for promiscuity – two of the other guys on my floor had already had sex with her, and I’d heard them talking about all the other guys she’d had sex with as well.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was out in a club with a large group of friends. We started mixing with another group, which K was a part of. K and I got talking (mostly about how crap the DJ was, I think), then a song we both actually liked came on and we moved to the dancefloor and danced with each other. I could see where things were going, so as we were dancing I put my hands on her hips and looked her in the eyes, and we started making out. After a while, I asked if she wanted to leave and she said ok, so we got in a cab back to campus and kept making out the whole way there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we got back to my room, we undressed each other pretty quickly. I had her lie on her back on the bed and spread her legs, and I went down on her for a while, then joined her on the bed and fingered her until she came. After that she sucked my cock for a while, then put a condom on me, climbed on top of me and put my cock inside her. She started off riding me gently, while I licked and sucked on her nipples, then she got a lot faster, then gentler again, deliberately nearly making me come and then holding back so that I didn’t. Finally, I stopped her and got her on all fours, and we finished off with me fucking her hard from behind until I came inside her.
Afterwards, we lay on the bed still naked and talked for a while before she got up to go back to her own room. She put her dress back on, but without putting any underwear on first. Then she picked up her bra and put it in her handbag. Finally, she picked up her sky-blue, lacy thong and handed it to me and told me to keep it as she liked the men she slept with to remember her.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, we both did.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss anything but we did use a condom.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Like most male university students, I was constantly horny. I thought K was hot and I knew she was promiscuous, which is probably why I started talking to her in the club.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We’d both had a few drinks, but weren’t really drunk.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? K and I ran into each other regularly for the rest of our time at university and flirted a little, but never hooked up again. I haven’t seen her or had any contact with her since then. I found the thong in my wardrobe when I was moving out of the room at the end of the year and threw it away, as I thought keeping it would’ve been a little weird!
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody, but the other guys on my floor knew it had happened and gave me the usual ‘legend’/’player’ banter the next morning.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was a completely positive experience – it was fun and the sex was good.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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