by GingerMinx


Gender: Female
Age: 39
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: U.S.
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Self Employed
Relationship status: In an LTR, Common Law
Religious affiliation: None – Raised Mormon
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Mostly men, but I do love women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1


The Vibrator


How long ago did this hookup happen? 1998

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was working as a manager at a well known women’s lingerie store, (which was ironic because I never wore panties in those days) and my very conservative and religious father asked if he could introduce me to a new co-worker he knew who had just moved to town and was looking to meet people. We’ll call him “Mark”. 
Mark was my age, average build and height and I immediately knew that if my dad thought he’d be a nice boy, then I wouldn’t be attracted to him, but I figured, “What the hell?  I’m bored. Let’s see what stories I can get outta this guy.” So I agreed to go out with him on a date.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The first time I went to his house, I immediately noticed his computer in the corner because his screensaver was on a continuous loop of porn – almost like he put it there on purpose to brag.  The screensaver was all women; topless, bottomless, in all sorts of provocative, sexual positions. Big, beautiful, suckable breasts, silky wet, shaved pussies you just wanna lick all night long. They were presenting themselves to me spread eagle, doggy style, eyes looking back at you kinda excited, kinda scared… you get the idea.  Seeing them there, in full view, which Mark proudly displayed for a first-time date with me, just felt really forced, almost like he was marching his fierce, manly heterosexuality in front of me.  So, being the curious and slightly devious person I am, I decided right then & there to test my theory.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I played along, and finally got him to the bedroom. He was a horrible kisser – too slobbery wet, too much lizard-like tongue action, lips were too tough, no sensuality in it at all. He had a nice cock, average size, but didn’t really know how to use it that well. I’d love to say he rode me all night long but that didn’t happen.  I don’t even think he came. I know I didn’t.  
It was after our first awkward encounter that I somehow managed to start talking about how much I liked using a vibrator.  He seemed interested, so I kept talking about it and casually mentioned how I’d read somewhere that men who have used vibrators in their ass reported experiencing intense orgasms because the vibration stimulates the prostate – I kept it slightly scientific-y, making sure to sound enthusiastic and curious, and then I left it at that.  We move on to another topic.
The next day he called me while he was shopping to ask me what color vibrator I wanted him to buy; metallic gold or silver?
So yeah.  It happened.  The next couple weeks I’d go over to his house, we’d sit and watch tv for a bit and then I’d lick his (~ clean ~) ass and ram the gold metallic vibrator up there while he jerked off and yelled “THIS IS SO WRONG!” right before he came all over his chest – all while the incredibly hetero-porn screensaver on his computer loomed in the corner of the room.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? nah, I never did.  But that wasn’t the point.  He definitely came many times, but only with the vibrator in his ass.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He wore a condom the first and only time we had intercourse.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I admit, they were a tad sinister.  I wanted a good story and I got it. Once I saw the porn screensaver, I wanted to see just how deviant this guy that my dad had introduced me to was.  I also wanted to see if I could break him out of his obvious closet & maybe I did.  Who knows?  We lost touch.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got bored of him pretty quickly because my needs weren’t being met. I stopped answering his voicemails and he stopped calling.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told a few people since he wasn’t someone who ran in my circle of friends.  It’s a great story.  You can’t keep this one to yourself, especially since my dad – whom I truly love dearly, but who is so straight that he doesn’t even like the words “crap” or “fart” to be used in his house – introduced me to him.  I never use his real name and I heard he moved to another state years ago.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nah.  It was fun even if I didn’t cum.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was watching this guy’s eyes come alive when he knew we were about to play with the vibrator.  He really loved it.  Who knows?  If he was gay or bi, maybe it helped him to gain more confidence to ask for what he likes.  It showed me that no matter what you like, As long as it doesn’t truly hurt anyone else, you have a right to ask for it.  I’m glad I could introduce him to something that brought him a ton of pleasure.
The worst was that I knew from day one I wasn’t gonna cum with him.  
I have, and always will love casual sex. It’s fucking hot.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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