Location: United States
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Religious affiliation: Lutheran
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is about 6’2″, blond haired with piercing intense blue eyes, the perfect sky color. He has a broad chest and great arms. Blonds are usually not my first choice, but he was very handsome. I was just getting out of a year long relationship that had left me feeling inadequate as a woman – my ex would not have sex with me because he said I am not thin enough although he said he was attracted to me physically. I am not rail thin nor can I ever physically be so. I am more of a Christina Hendricks or Sophia Vergara type. Long story short, after I dumped him I was in need of someone to really appreciate me as a woman. Just as I am now.
We met online. He wanted me to come out for a drink to meet him. I was coming from another event and was ready to go home for the night. We were text flirting back and forth for about 2 hours. I could tell he was intelligent, I found out we had friends in common, and based on the work he does I knew a certain amount of basic safety and security boxes are automatically checked. On a whim I invited him to come over. I wasn’t sure if he would or not, but he did.
It was instant chemistry when we first met. Standing before me was the most beautiful blond Scandinavian type man I had ever met. He was definitely into me too. We hung out for about an hour or so talking. I really liked not just what he looked like, but also the person he is. He has a wonderfully diverse background and we had some common interests. He is a person who may look intimidating due to his size, but I could tell he has a very soft side with a heart of gold.
Although we have two friends in common, we did not know each other. He is from another state and travels a lot for work.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started at my house. After we were talking for a while he leaned over and started kissing me. He was an amazing kisser. Very sensual and passionate. Clearly he was as into me as I was into him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The Viking was a wonderful and attentive lover. He paid attention to all of me. He is the strong silent type in bed, but his actions showed not only was he paying attention to me but that he wanted to ensure I had the maximum amount of pleasure. He did go down on me and was very talented. I came a couple times that way. I usually can cum multiple times both from oral stimulus and vaginal. Although I prefer to finish vaginally. The Viking had an amazing cock. He was big and thick. He definitely knew what he was doing! He liked my body. He sucked on my breasts, my neck and caressed every inch of me. He made me feel amazing and beautiful. We did have vaginal sex, where I continued to cum multiple times. He told me later he loves how he can make me cum and how I cum so much and so often. Afterwards we took a shower together. I wanted him to spend the night, but he had a breakfast meeting downtown at 7am that he couldn’t postpone or miss. I was sad he couldn’t stay. I think he wanted to stay too.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t talk much about past partners. We did talk about when both of us had been tested. For both of us it was recent. I told him I was on the Pill and I did ask him to wear a condom. He did.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had both been drinking earlier in the evening, but neither one of us was drunk. I don’t even think we were buzzed when he came over. We did have one drink together at my house.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I was on cloud 9. I felt amazing and alive. I was definitely walking around in a state of euphoria. He sent me a text telling me how much he enjoyed meeting me and spending time with me. His work schedule wasn’t one that was going to allow us to see each other again before he left.
We have exchanged some text messages here and there. He did come back to my city and his first stop was to see me. I think he does like me as a person as well as thinking I am good in bed.
I think he is a person I would love to get to know more. I think we could have a real relationship, but I recognize as long as he does the work that he does it won’t be possible. He travels about 99% of his time. That is no schedule for a personal relationship of any kind. If he didn’t live in another state and had a different job then I think this could transition to something more permanent. I wish I could see him more, but realize it isn’t going to happen. I accept that and am ok with it.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To some of my good friends. They were happy for me. They never liked my ex and thought I was too good for him. They were happy that someone appreciated me for what they see in me. They wish the Viking would be around more for me, but they understand.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. Both of us were very much into having sex together. There was no expectation that this would be more than a one night thing or anything more than sex. That is still true except now we know each other and it isn’t a one time thing. But the expectation is it is still mostly no strings attached sex.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. Absolutely not! He was amazing! He is what I needed at the time. I’m glad I met him. I’m glad things have turned out as they have between us. Part of me wishes we could have more together, but I’m good with accepting what is given.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Everything was and is good about the Viking! The only bad thing is he travels too much and lives too far away. No, this experience hasn’t changed my opinion. It was a great experience at a time where I really needed someone to connect with me sexually and in way that was deeper than just sex. I mean he is the kind of lover where you can see his soul when he has sex with you. It is a very deep personal experience for him even if he doesn’t say so. You can tell. And I liked making that connection with him. I needed that as much as I think he needed it. No, it doesn’t change the fact that the relationship is still sex based, but it is different from other hookups.
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!