by Kelly
Gender: Female
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: White

Location: California
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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The Visitor

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 weeks

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him on okcupid. He initiated contact first and I responded because I thought he looked cute. He had calm blue eyes, balding blonde hair, a gap in his front teeth, with an average build and height. He also had an easy smile. I found I liked him as a person after talking to him in person. I don’t think I would have had sex with him if I didn’t like him as a person.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He was on a business trip and was staying at a local hotel. When I told him I had no plans for the night he said I should come over to cuddle. I told him no at first. Meeting a stranger at a roadside motel isn’t a wise thing to do. I also knew that when men say one thing they often mean another. But I went and saw him anyways because I wanted an adventure. I told him that I wasn’t going to have sex with him and he said that he wasn’t looking for sex just someone to hang out with for the night. We talked while watching TV and cuddling for an hour or so before I made the first move, kissing him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a bit, I was so turned on. His fingers pushed my underwear to the side and he touched me. My bra somehow ended up coming off as well. He knew what do with his hands. Previous men I was with have always been rough touching me down there. This man knew how delicate my lady parts were and how to make me wet. I asked if he wanted to have sex. He didn’t reply back so I told him I had condoms. He was surprised that I had them and welcomed the idea of using them. Neither of us finished but we both enjoyed ourselves. It was late so he offered for me to stay the night with him. We fell asleep in each others arms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to have fun. I wanted to experience the thrill of causal sex.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? His alarm clock went off. I got out of bed, grabbed my purse, put on my flip flops and told him that this was fun and gave him a hug good bye.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? BEST: I finally had sex for sex. No emotions just getting lost in the physical aspect of it. I now understand why people do it.

WORST: Nothing. I regret nothing.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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