by The Professional Lady

Gender: Female
Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: Sometimes mexican sometime indian even asian at times who knows. ūüôā
Current location: South Africa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Relationship status: Mostly single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Explorer
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Wink

How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)?¬†Who knows

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup?¬†Well we met in a Bar. I was hangingout with some friends, when this cutie appeared, he flashed me the most gorgeous smile, i smiled back and winked. I then walked over to him (not losing eye contact for a second) .¬† ¬†I introduced myself¬† and then said well im gonna kiss you now after the amazing kiss, I said that I will be taking him home , I must say good decision ūüėČ it was a mind blowing evening. Next morning after doing the walk of shame a few hours later I get a call to find out if im okay at this point i finally got a name ( I blame it on the shots). Well a good few months later we still “friends” or “friends with benefits”. All i know is that im glad he came back to the Bar he spotted me the week before we hooked up and of course that I wincked. So our story started with a one night stand, then a passionate fling then into a great friendship (with benefits of course), who knows what will happen next ūüôā

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?¬†In a Bar, not planned at all or atleast from my side it wasn’t.¬† I think both of us instegated the “thing”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was amazing, we had some bruise to prove it lol  ;).

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yup multiple.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? CONDOMs

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I found him Hot and attractive and he found me Hot and attractive. We needed some fun i guess.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots of shots

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Very liberating,  a boost in self confidence, sexy, desired. Like they say men wants to be needed, woman wants to be wanted. Knowing that one is desired is good for the soul.hes an amazing person. Who knows how this will end, will have to wait and see. Well in tge beging i thought does this guy not know the meaning of a one night stand no contact nothing. But im glad he perused more.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react?¬†Somr close friends. Well the one said ” once again you prove that you are actually a man and not a woman, cause how can you have sex with someone wothout emotions”

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? NO

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Months later we still friends.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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