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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA and NYC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Writer
What’s your current relationship status? As I said. Complicated
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Hundreds
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Three Nasty Boys

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? First was D. He’s 24. Jock build like me but without the piercings and tats I have. Met on Grindr a while ago. He texted me and wanted to play and I decided to find a third. R was on Barebackrealtime. He was a freak like me 30ish and had some tats and piercings. Both are tops

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Both came over.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? D got to my place first. I told him about the other guy so he decided to open my hole up using a fist sized toy. Both fucked me separately, with a cock and dildo and then DP. Both pissed in and on me. Both tortured my nipples by twisting the piercings.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had to wash towels and sheets. That was all. I’d do it again

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told a few Friends who like what I like.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? DP

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Most of my activity is casual sex. I am horny 24×7 and Even boyfriends cannot keep up so they tend to bring home other guys to use me

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!